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While copper IUDs can indeed make your periods heavier and longer, they're a really good option for someone who wants a non-hormonal birth control, because they're in place once and for all for 5 or 10 years depending on the model, and you don't have to remember birth control anymore and you...

I am poly, and only interested in committed relationships. If she does not want any commitments, and you do, then yes, this is a problem. This has nothing to do with polyamory. If you wanted commitment, and she didn't, and it was monogamy, it would be the same-- an incompatibility issue. If...

I just wanted to point out that even someone interested in BDSM, like me, still gets that feeling of incredible rage and immense frustration at not being able to fix it when I hear about anything happening non-consensually. Actually, I would say I even have a hard time watching consensual BDSM...

I understand your frustration. I think it always sucks to be rejected, and when it's not because of who you are, but because of an aspect of you, it feels unfair. I definitely don't think it means all women will reject you, even among those who happen to prefer more hair. You actually sweat...

I do want to look like an ape. I'm a human being. Human beings are apes (and mammals, and vertebrates, and animals, if you go up the classification). If you like it all shaved, good for you. I don't, because I think it looks less natural/human/animal, and more artificial/doll/object. Good for...

Now, I totally agrees that stuff gets caught in hair. I've had untouched pubic hair, trimmed, completely waxed, etc., and it's true that during my period some blood gets into the hair. So I wash there. To be honest, I prefer having that obvious sign that I need to wash, because without it, I...

While I don't believe my pussy looks like a child's when it's hairless (mostly because I have a developed clitoris and labia that I distinctly remember not being that way when I was a child), it's true that the porn industry is what made it appealing to people. They've proven that the porn...

I just received the decree of divorce! We are now divorced. Next updates should be about something completely different :)

I don't have regular tests at this time, but Seamus and I are each other's only partner right now so it seems like it would be futile.

Yes, it is. Raga says it should arrive on Tuesday, since there is the weekend in the middle and it's international (and Canada Post doesn't work on Saturdays for some reason. This has always been weird to me as both the French and the US postal services do). And if that happened to get lost...

Quick update because I'm on greyhound. I asked Raga. Yesterday was too late for him to call the notary to get an appointment so he did today. He sent me pictures of the documents and of the tracking number. I'll sent the number to the lawyer as soon as I post this.

You're right, and I have decided to move on. I sent Raga a message, offering to pay for him to notarise it again and send it overnight this time with tracking. This is money I am willing to lose if he doesn't do it. If he does, I asked for the tracking number and we can see that everything gets...

Bad news: I do need a new resident witness affidavit. I have no clue why I can't use the same one, but it does mean I don't have one and might not find a witness to sign for it. This was all planned perfectly and I had to ruin it all by letting the lawyer influence me into turning it into a...

Talked to the lawyer again, after Raga sent me an email checking in because they should have received it by now. No kidding! They should have received it almost two weeks ago. She was annoyed when I suggested to check that they didn't get it and said I should ask him for the tracking number. I...

Yeah, I expect that this will happen :P It's frustrating because I know he's not really doing it on purpose, during our whole relationship there was a lot of sabotaging on his part, some of it affecting me but most of it accepting him. And I don't think he was aware of it, although pointing it...

Sooo... when I accepted to file jointly instead of on my own, I knew I was probably going to regret it. So much so that I didn't even tell anyone else because I'm so tired of hearing how wrong I was to trust Raga and how stupid I am to keep giving him more chances. Well the lawyers received my...

A positive update: I've started filing for divorce in Nevada, first alone, but then after I contacted Raga he joined in so that we can file together and get it over with. As stressful as it's all been, I'm glad that it seems to finish on a happier note of us working together to get it done, even...

In fairness, it's "only" been a year: I first asked for the birth certificate in May 2012. Before that (May 2011 to end of 2011) I was trying to get Raga to file for a Canadian divorce, as I had been told I couldn't do it, not being a resident, and then (end of 2011 to February 2012) after he...

Yes, I received the birth certificate on the 2nd of May. I sent it to the French lawyer and a court date has indeed been set for the 9th of September. I'm still worried something will go wrong in the meantime but hopefully things will work out. I probably should have posted with the update...

I would first figure out who would enjoy whatever even that is the most, who knows people there, etc, and then see who's available. Then we'd probably talk about it and pick. If a decision couldn't be reached, I'd call and ask if I can bring an extra person, which sometimes is an option...