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I couldn't fit myself into the limits of this particular poll question either. I am capable of passionately loving some one even if sex is off limits. I see nothing wrong with enjoying sex within the limits of a long term friendship, even if the love is that of friends and not of lovers. I...

It took us a long time to agree on boundaries, and what would make us feel hurt or not. My husband emotionally just wants to be bonded to me, and therefore to always be my primary attachment, but he wants sexual variety and to try some things he just is pretty sure are not so much to my...

PolyMatchmaker might be another venue to try as it is specifically about poly people. And even mono single people take forever to find a match, so it is about patience! My husband and I are having similar experiences in frustration, though he is more of a swinger, and I am more poly oriented.

I dream of getting back to my ideal weight for height range, for health reasons but also because in honesty, I feel more attractive at a thinner weight. There are definitely too thin people though out there, and weight is not the only factor in wanting to be in a relationship. If I'm in a...

I would say both my husband and I are on the introvert side, probably one of the reasons we both married relatively late compared to our relatives (though many of our friends married at ages similar to ours). We're not total introverts though - we do get a positive charging from interactions...

Although nll and I are romantic plenty on other times of year, we have never failed to take advantage of any specials that are actually (surprisingly with some businesses) truly economically advantageous ways to pamper each other (like a spa special with his and hers massages or restaurants that...

acrophobia

Value of faith Belief in something bigger than yourself is what keeps you going on a lonely winter night or worse. That some people are hateful and claim their hate as faith is unfortunate. In the concentration camps the ones who survived were not the biggest strongest ones, nor yet the ones...

polymatchmaker I personally found it more appropriate than OKCupid. It's true its filter does not work as selectively as one might like, but it has a large number of people all interested in non-monogamous relationships, so that is helpful.

From previous posts, obviously not CF! However, respect that other people may want to be focused on career achievement, travel, just plain not have to be financially responsible for anyone but their individual self! In some ways, even though I adore my son, even apart from the bipolar, it was a...

Before you assume its a child substitute as you put it, you really need to know their cultural orientation. In some cultures, if you have it (money), you spoil those you love who don't - including if it is perfectly romantic. Are you sure there aren't issues you are finding with them because...

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Do the two people come as a package? I am assuming yes, or I wouldn't see the issue...

Grew up always working on designing some dungeon or other, have never been able to really get into the computerized RPG's - they just seem nuisancy compared to reading a book or scribbling down a few ideas.

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Hi Carl, Without knowing your exact situation it is hard to know what you could use for thought material, but I will therefore extrapolate somewhat from my own experience. I needed to know that I remained relevant to my sig other despite his interest in some variety. He and I are the best of...

I reveal my age again, but was listening to an old Goo Goo Dolls single...

Hi, its a bit of a tangent but Quath's definition above was Spinoza's type of pantheism (one my favorite Jewish heretics ;) )

Hi, hubby and I are in New York State, but he has an interest in swinging, while I have a wiring for longer term emotional connections, so we might be good chat buddies?