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    Curious from Canada's Capital

    Sweet Well enough.. Seems you're ready for fun! Keep us up to date
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    FMF vs MFM

    Just so it's said FMF.... Is just as common in my area... And In my experience! It's just the nature of the Forum of why it's not so expressed... Nature of guys.. Whatever makes sense to you, because if the anecdotal is Making sense the other way means that it could just be what your eyes are...
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    Fun and Frolic With Long-Term Love

    Hi When you say Froze up... The be motor froze up.,... Or actual "Freezing in the condenser"? ... If motor broke down.. That sucks. If it's just iced over.... Just turn on the heat for a bit and Viola..
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    Sad Revelations and No Clear Path

    Hi Well take it easy on both of you... Y'all are trying to figure it out. Keep this for you... Your gf was just being a sloppy hinge in a classic case of over sharing with somethings if she does see the relations as separate. For you it seems best to also not pry into their relationship also...
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    Curious from Canada's Capital

    Welcome! Welcome to the Forum! Dreams are nice and all! Stop dreaming and focus on learning how to go about Relating Ethically... And everything will fall into place on its own.... It's a Journey either way.... Do take your time and read read read.... Ponder, meditate.... And try your hand...
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    Baby Names!

    Io Io... The 🌒 io.
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    Looking for clarity

    Welcome! Hi Ayla: Get rid of the picture you had in mind! It's truly part of Monoromantacism to me, just my opinion of course. Your bf sounds a bit young... As Maggy shared above He needs to grow up through counseling or lots of reading about ethical p. State your needs, Lady, and go from...
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    New to Poly, Already Fucked It Up

    Welcome! Just so it's said... There's options. And this is a poly forum.... With lots of helpful opinions.
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    New and Confused

    Well since it was mentioned in this thread a bit... About the 12 steps Can someone transpose the 12 steps into " Polyamory steps to opening awareness of self" .. Since most won't go to Al-Anon or AA... And a therapist can't get you there fast .. If ever. There is no substitution for doing the...
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    Just introducing myself

    Welcome! To the Forum
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    Mya's search for balance

    Not sure if it pertains .. Here goes. One of my SO's had pointed this out to me before, that I seem different if I spend too much time at the other place, even if I know I'm not enjoying the time as much as if she was there too. She thinks I forget about her/us if it's too many days... talking...
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    New Comer

    Welcome! Great to meet you!
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    Show of hands

    In my experience I hand over a number and suggest at the very least a " hi, how are you, this is so and so, have an awesome day"...a headsup to the SO would be in order as well... If I sense a need for reassurance from anyone involved. This would be very early on I would think. I tend to make...
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    Introduction

    Welcome! Hello and welcome
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    Struggling

    That right there above this post.. Yup... What she said What's the Hurry? A divorce is a life changing event.... It takes time to find " you" who you need to be for yourself after! That alone can be stressful to some. Take your time.. If he does care.. He'll be happy that you are sharing your...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    Sweet Must have been a great dream Kevin!!
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    Polysaturation and heartbreak.

    Hi Shaya The only ones I'll promise forever to is my kin!... And you are an adult that understands what that truly entails in this life.. tomorrow is a promise to no one! I only enjoy deep connections! I do like quick rumps now and then....I just don't like them with superficial characters or...
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    Online ressources

    Welcome! I suggest more direct specific questions here and have some of the Lady's, like FallenAngelina/ GalaGirl to reference a couple awesome ones, here on speed connect! ;) Enjoy the place and share outcomes! P.S I would do exactly as they suggest to the letter!! But that's just me lol ;)
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    Married, new to poly, primary partner struggling

    Hello and welcome...if I haven't said it before GalaGirl is spot on! So I won't add more.
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    New to Poly after 20 years in marriage

    Welcome! Plenty of info here ... And plenty of great advice if you ask. ;)
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