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You should research your state's laws on child custody issues. I know in my state, custody technically will go to the parent who is not or has not committed adultery. I'm in Northern Idaho, and it's very conservative here, and very old fashioned in state laws, even though the amazingly liberal...

good news The tumor was benign. No more low iodine diet, no more worries just a lifetime of testing my thyroid levels since I now have half of one. Date is on with TS on Sat. meeting at a Thai restaurant.

DH needed to move his overnight from last to tonight. I was selfish and more concerned that I might have to raincheck my cam date with ldr guy rather than verbalizing the empathy I had for dh's raincheck. MG's daughter was having her baby. I did have my cam date. We talked for over an hour...

Its nice to hear that. For me a daily "hi" is sufficient but nothing for days can be disconcerting when a relationship is just forming.

Welcome to the forum. you'll find a variety of information here. I've learned a lot in the four months I've been a member. Many here have much to share and I've grown so much myself from the knowledge I've gleaned.

Um wow, I can be totally wide awake and the second I start typing or texting, the zzz's hit me. Not sure why my brain shuts off, maybe i stop breathing deeply, but it does. LDR guy - what was i going to blog last night/early this morning about him? Oh yeah, I had contacted him first with a "I...

glad your back blogging. i live vicariously through your stories. ;)

Thanks for the get well thoughts. Had a scare today. Swelling under the steri-strips had me worried. I waited until dh came home before I called the dr. DH has been helping with this and caring for me and the surgery site that I needed his thoughts before I called. Dr said completely normal only...

How much communication have you and him done so far? As I read what you have wrote I get the impression really not much. If you desire to be in a poly relationship accepting boyfriend has a spouse whom he may or may not have sex with really only affects your sexual health. Emotional health you...

I had my thyroid surgery today. Lab results came back benign so only the tumor was removed but in 3 to 5 business days the lab could say cancer. I'm doing good. It's sore but nothing like my c-sections but I can't lay down, that's when it really hurts. DH is taking awesome good care of me and...

Sounds like if we did (i don't have facts to agree or disagree but imo we are evolved from more than what scientists say we are) evolve from a species it's either Bonobos or Dolphins, not Chimps. It just seems to me, in an analytical process, if we did evolve from Chimps we would not even be...

I can't really put a take on this as there is a lot of background information missing. For example, do they have kids together? Was he seeing you before the divorce? How long ago did they divorce in comparison with him seeing you? Do you have kids with him? And whether I know that information...

As I read the OP and then the first few responses I felt so confused as I didn't interpret it the same. Does it not say "HE" considered her more than a sub, telling her she's a "Queen"? And I never once got from this OP she's vanilla but actually in a D/s relationship with him. I have to say I...

Happy thanksgiving Sunday's dinner with MG, SG & DH went off great. LOL but as DH & I were heading over to the restaurant (we live 30-40 min away) I realized the KB might work there. I text him and yep, he works there and was almost off from work. So weird to finally meet a potential fwb while...

That was awesome! Stories help see a different perspective, don't stop sharing. I cracked a big smile reading it. I feel like I'm a rebounder even after casual encounters, probably because I crush hard from great sex. I leave wanting more & more of it. then I don't get more so I'm off looking...

has any rebound become more than that? Have any of those rebounds become more of a committed relationship after the mourning (fun sex) time frame?:D

It's challenging but it does work Try scheduling and managing life with only one vehicle, complicated but it does work out. Husband and I started out that he gets 2 days with another and I get 2 days. Due to my not having another husband has been requesting extra time with girlfriend. I've...

that is definitely true (the bold). i doubt h and gf have even thought about that side. gf may, as her metamour from hub is their massage therapist who comes to their home for over the last 2 years and she has been dating SG for about 2 to 3 months now. i do know i have no expectations aside...

I like that aspect of thinking more positively about the term "rebound". That testing the waters with some one who could be rebounding is a positive opportunity to form a wonderful relationship and why pass up a chance due to what we're (some of us) ingrained with thinking, about a word. Your...

I usually answer my question as I write it out. Basically it's our nature to rebound no matter what love choice we live by. True the time frame of getting over a loss is dependent on who we are individually.