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His insistence is that anyone who wants to sleep with me be tested for it, in this case, the person in question already knows that they also have herpes. From past experience, and again this morning, I know for a fact that the doctor will NOT test for herpes when it's already been confirmed you...

Yes, things are calming down. I'm thankful. The kids were thrilled to see Maca. My sister came and spent the evening. We had a nice visit. I talked earlier with Panther about speed bumps on the path. Nothing so significant as to warrant derailing the train, just details to work through...

All's well that ends well. Today Maca comes home. I woke to a message from my sister that she has no issue with that change in situation between Panther and me. Now for a shower, brush my teeth, clean out the car and head to town! Going to pick out pumpkins today so we can do...

He's coming home tomorrow for a couple weeks, then returning for a week to pack our stuff. Then home. Probably have to go back for a few weeks in January, and again in March or April. But basically he's home. The contractor is WAY behind schedule and there's no way for Maca to stay and work at...

Sounds reactional. I think I would reiterate POINT BLANK that you arent CURRENTLY dating and thus you are free to do WHATEVER. But that doesn't mean you aren't willing to consider the possibility of stricter agreements if you do decide to date. I think one difficulty in hooking up with...

One of the things I've found is that it's helpful to remind yourself that you have an obligation to maintain the work on existing obligations (romantic or otherwise) PERIOD. Which means-you don't schedule to do things with NRE person-that take you away from your duties. A relationship is like...

Marriage Equality Alaska just became a marriage equality state! Soooo stoked!

Today we got a chance to sit and talk about boundaries. We went through them and made a few MINOR changes. Nothing significant. It was a MUCH calmer rational conversation than was happening on the phone. I think we are both content with the final result.

One thing we learned really fast was that spontaneous opportunities are pretty much limited to when one of us is out of town or otherwise unavailable. In terms of our day to day lives-we plan our date times with other people. We don't "suddenly" decide to go see another partner. So for...

Yeah. He did call the doctor. They can't call in a new script. Have to see him. And no one here.

So maybe they figured out too late that it wasn't so big a deal as they thought for the first event. :) Sounds like a friendly reply. I know for me-I have met a few younger people who are more than reasonable potentials. But it generally falls into a closer age range for me. MIND YOU; I'm...

He needed to stop taking the ones he stopped taking. He was having side effects including increased depression, anxiety & paranoia. He didn't stop taking his ADD meds, his blood pressure meds or his sleep meds. But he needed to stop taking the pain meds (he has a shoulder injury). When he comes...

Sneacail, yes, he has. It seems obvious to me, but evidently not to everyone else.

Several cancelled flights (shitty weather in Kodiak), but I stuck it out at the airport and managed to catch the only plane that landed in Kodiak yesterday. The relief on Maca's face upon seeing me was palpable. He's doing much better, in terms of being coherent and rational since he quit...

Different groups limit ages above and below. It's much like any other type of group; where they try to get similar aged people in order to promote a close knit group of people who have similar interests. (not saying it's necessarily functional-just one thing I've seen). While I tend to be...

Thanks. I wish I could get that piece of mail! The grandkids have gone home. SweetPea is visiting a friend. SourPea is with GG. I'm curled up in my bed alone. It's only 6:30 but I don't care. I'm taking a break. A friend talked with me online for awhile this morning before she went to a job...

He texted. He's back in Kodiak. The phones were f'd up. I'm not surprised. He's not surprised I called the supervisor and was working on calling in the state troopers either. Fucking stupid-ass shit. I can't wait to get out of this damn state.

I contacted his "big boss" again today. I explained the whole situation. He agreed 48 hours out of contact is unusual for Maca & not worth risking a possible serious problem, in light of his remote location. He is contacting the contractors on the jobs in Kodiak to figure out where he was sent...

Hopefully it's just a phone issue. But that isn't great comfort when I know he's having health issues & shouldn't be out there in the first place. It was idiotic for him to go somewhere so isolated in the middle of a medical issue in the first place.

Haven't heard from Maca since 6am Monday morning. He said there was a phone where they were sending him and he would call to say goodnight to the kids each night. But no one has heard a thing since he called to say goodbye before he got on the 4-seat plane. Spicy still has baby pea inside...