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I don't have time for long advice, but I do want to support you and tell you there is NOTHING wrong with you, and I went through all the same thoughts and issues as you for a very long time. I'm still struggling because I'm not where I really feel my heart wants to be. I hope it works out...

Welcome as well! <3

Welcome to the forum! I'm from Texas as well! yay state! I'm interested in the answers too :)

Welcome alinmat! I've been in your shoes. It's a hard journey, and I always thought something was wrong with me. But there isn't. I don't have time for a long post but wanted to welcome you and assure you that you aren't the only one who has struggled with loving more than one person.

Welcome to the forum! Glad to have you and glad to hear you're starting out positive!

I'm glad you're here and joining us! I'm like your wife, in that all my life I never felt complete, never quite happy, struggled with feelings for other people, thought something was wrong with me. I can tell you to even bring that up with your husband is gut-wrenching, scary, difficult...

I'm going to say from knowing myself that if poly is part of you, then you can't ignore that. Because I can say for certain living monogamously has left me feeling broken broken broken, and even though I've been able to come out as poly and have a bf/gf I'm realizing that parts of me are still...

Welcome the forum! I hope you get a lot of out of being here. And I think all of us are still learning. I know I am!

You should tell them, but I think statistically a lot of people have HPV. My boyfriend actually had, and survived, the cancer in his throat from this. It doesn't stop me from loving him.

I wish I had the energy to write up something more substantial but I'm dealing with my own emotional issues at the same time. I just want to offer hugs and support and to say that your feelings all sound very very valid. I wouldn't know which option to go with either. knowing me, I would do...

I have to agree with this more so. Being accepting of poly doesn't 'make one able to have or want to have multiple relationships themselves. I do see it a little different than "well I accept that people are gay but that doesn't make me gay" because the partner is PART of the relationship...

I used the 'view forum leaders' to send an email to one of the staffers. Not sure if I picked someone active or not, but I agree, it's getting super cluttered and... I'm tired of seeing them too :(

I can say that I usually need someone outside of the issues to confide in. Someone who is just there to listen to me, whether it's to vent or get advice. Someone who will just see my side but also call me on my feelings as well. So yes, to me that's completely normal. He can't have...

NO worries! We can still greet you here! Welcome to the forum. :)

Going to throw out that if you haven't read (and your partner and their partner's) haven't read More than Two then you absolutely need to. Most all the issues you talked about (The rules, the communication, the first meeting, the jealousy, etc) are covered so WELL in that book. Regardless...

Welcome to the forum! I think it's great you both want to explore together and that you're looking for resources! Welcome welcome!

If you make it I'd love to join.

Hahaha I did that too! Cuz it was quite annoying. Welcome to the forum!

I don't have time for a long answer, but i wanted to say that in my experience D/s is very very very much a chemistry thing. I have submitted to only two men in my life and only one fully and completely. Even if my husband wanted to have an D/s relationship with me that isn't something I FEEL...

I admit I have a love of the blood elves, but I'm pretty well entrenched into alliance now! Our server was primarily Alliance and then they merge it with a horde one and good luck getting to Kara without getting camped. Ugh!