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EEK! Are you a Wower? #addicted myself (Probably could add DRAENAI FIRE MAGE! + human pally and Night Elf DH!) Welcome to the forum! I'm glad you're able to explore your poly nature and hope we can get to know you here!

Mine too. But I don't see it happening. I don't think hubby wants to tell anyone. And he's struggling again and doesn't even talk to anyone about things, which I think is unhealthy. That's a whole new topic though. So for now, I don't think I'll be being open. :(

Awesome! That is an amazing book!

Welcome! I'm sorry I don't have much time today but wanted to drop in greetings!! Glad you've joined us!

Welcome Nettle! I'm glad you've joined us and do hope to see you around posting!

Welcome Belly! I don't have a lot of time to post right now, but I also was not faithful and later came to realize I was breaking down because I was just so unhappy being monogamous. I'll take more time to read your story soon and hope we can talk. I'm having a lot of struggles now, two...

Does it bother you that they want to stay in the closet with their poly or is that not really an issue for you? I'm just curious. Sometimes it bothers me to have to feel like I'm hiding things. Other times I think it might make things worse. Like, I am traveling to Florida for the fourth...

My guess is that she's seeing these times as times you spend together but not TOGETHER. No different than when my husband and I are in the same room but we're doing different things. We might even both be at the dinner table but he's gaming with his brother I'm gaming with my gf. Just...

Ok, so I have some questions, thoughts maybe just need some discussion. So right now, none of our friends know that I'm poly. My husband's family doesn't know either. And I feel like he would not want them to know. No, I haven't asked directly yet which is the point of this thread. Have...

Thanks Marcus. This is really helpful. I have actually never received a bad reaction from anyone I've told, although I've been very careful and slow about it IRL as well. I have another question but I think a new thread would be best

Ha, I have no freakin' idea how I do. And since I'm currently a world of warcraft addict as well..... (but I play that with bf and gf a lot since they are LD) I just .. make it work? And I live in Texas. BEST STATE IN THE NATION. Yes I'm biased. Yes I'm ok with this. But Kevin is right...

Welcome to the forum! I can't wait to see more insight from your own experiences as well!

Agreed. There is nothing wrong with being honest about how you feel and how other's behavior makes you feel. There is a difference between saying, "You make me feel sad. You make me jealous" And "I am feeling sad and jealous at the thought of you being with someone else. Can we talk about...

Oh Duh lol. Here I thought it was some crazy poly term or site or something.

Makes a lot of sense Arius! And what is TOS...?

sounds like it. You've basically set rules on your gf's relationship with someone else (your husband) whether she likes it or not, and while it's easy to agree to that as first, what if they want to have sex and you keep saying no? Equally, if you and she end up NOT working, are you going to...

Galagirl always gives amazing advice! I just want to throw in my support for you and your decisions and your happiness and also glad that you have such an amazing husband!

So I'm hearing a number of issues. I'll address the ones that stood out to me. As a member of a triad, I will say now, you need to let them spend time together alone. From my experience, a triad is only as strong as the links between the partners. This is completely a fair assessment for...

Welcome to the forum! I agree with Kevin. Sounds like your'e doing well and happy! yay!

Welcome to the forums! I understands your fears. It took me a LONG time and a lot of struggle to figure out how to talk to my husband and then it was struggling after that to adjust to the process. It won't be easy, but it was worth it.