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getting a seal of aproval When i wrote that we want to make our relationship permanent and get a religious sanctity is that we have decided that I get married to my cousin and my husband will get married to cousin’s wife in a religious ceremony according to Hindu rites ( Please click in link...

next step Hi alexi I am writing about it and probably i will be posting that today

because of the complications i had, during my son's delivery and on the advice of my gyno, i cannot concieve. and as my cousin's wife has some problem because of which, they dont have children. By a miracle, if she becomes pregnant, it will be God;s gift and all 4 of us will be parenting, but...

very true Alexi, Only because of the lack of rigidity in Hindu dharma and the ability to adopt and evolve, based on the requirement of the time has made this ancient religion prosper for such a long time and survived even after the onslaught of external religious forces

Hinduism and poly After our New Year day (Ugadi) which we all celebrated with great joy and enthusiasm, son left for coorg to visit his friend, and from there he will be going back to his college, . Now I have got a little free time to write about the decision we had jointly taken. Before that...

pitfalls Before i write about my religion and polyamory, I wold like to talk about the pitfalls, that we have to be careful for a long lasting relationship mentioned my Ms Anita Wagner. and how it applies to us PITFALL : Lack of Poly Education - All 4 of us have read quite extensively all the...

our journey Thanks Lapsi, I also have come to the same conclusion, because it will only confuse us and what has been found thro' various research will definately not apply equally to everybody, After all they all generalise, in the conclusion. and each one is a unique case. For example, it is...

finding justification I have used the two weeks on reading whatever I could on polyamory. Another thing I did was a lot of introspection about why we want to be poly, which is a very alien concept to us, and we hadn’t heard about this until a few months back. I analysed our background and our...

last weekend turned out to be a very significant weekend in our lives, It was official, that we r going to be polyamorous couples. We have decided on so many things and agreed on the boundaries and how we manage our finances.- there r only two earning members. since my son has come home for 2...

Hi Crissy. I can imagine the shock, the hurt and other sad feelings you might have gone through when you found about your partner. I appreciate your courage to expose him to the authorities. It is really heartening to learn that you have recovered within 4 months and been able to establish a new...

We get along really well...... . So far it has gone well, we check in with each other frequently, set healthy boundries, and I have not felt like Im competting or losing anything despite him spending a lot of time with his intrest. Reading what u have written, I feel the chances of failure or...

meeting the needs over the week I was thinking about about meeting all the needs. Then it flashed in my mind that "Yes now Me and my SO is and can meet all of each other's known needs. As our relationship is expanding, our personalities will also grow We might come across some new needs in...

As I know of India and more in South India and Chennai, people (especially the vendors and hawkers) will very quickly get a feel about something different happening. Thanks Amithab. We r very well aware of the people, who may notice something different, In addition to the hawkers etc, another...

Dear friend, in my opinion, it will be a wise move to take up that accomodation. Each case is different and we cannot decide on other's experience. It depends on the level of understanding and transeparency u have with ur primary and the other person too. The only risk i can think of is...

I agree with Redpepper. Might be this short period after Steve moved in was something similar to a honeymoon immediately after the wedding when u stay together all the 24 hrs together. and as we know honeymoon cant last for ever and a regular schudle will be worked for coming back to normal...

hi LadyKane welcome home. As I see becoming a member here is ur first step towards ur journey into polyamory. As for as the new partners r concerned, in ur subconcious mind there might already be somebody, which might come out. If not, falling in love is a natural process which will occur...

Thanks dear Sage In my msg I was not very specific of even the time line. We had many social interaction with the other couple ever since their marriage, which was about 10 years back. we used to visit each other also. The second thing is. I had just mentioned that they moved in recently- which...

reason for going into a new relationship Thanks That Girl in Gray for ur response In the same paper by Mr Maura he mentions an i quote "Multiple relationships are viewed as positive, in part, because no one individual “can meet all your needs.” Those needs include being challenged, growing, and...

Loving does not mean only sex. Yes, it is possible to have a loving, romantic relationship without actually having sex, and I firmly believe this is also polyamory.

welcome enduser and there is a wealth of information and lots of members who r very helpful,. Even I am a comparetively new member and i have already been greatly benifitted. I suggest u go through the thread- Master Thread - links to other threads worth reading, which might help u in...