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Mostly. I'm willing to work within the boundaries of not going flirty, romantic, physical, or sexual, and distancing in case the others are offered. But deep relationships are fine. There isn't really a distinction between male and female friends, for example. I'm big on the ethics. I have to...

Thank you. That's a helpful challenge. The answer is, anything is possible, but most is improbable. I really don't know the future. Non-sexual kink with anyone outside the marriage is off the table, too. But Katie (the pseudonym I chose for BF's wife) has made it clear I'm in the brother-zone...

Oh duh!... How mononormative of me! :ROFLMAO:

I'm going to break this out into a separate reply, since it's quite a distinct departure from the rest of my reply. (At the suggestion, I'll nickname some more. Jess=wife, Sean=best friend, Katie=best friend's wife.) I might be losing the point you're trying to impart, but yes, that's the...

Thanks for the sympathy. I've been slowly working on untangling my resentment about having "wasted" the past 20 years and my "youth," and it's never really about that. I didn't figure this out until I did, and it's not that the last 20 years have been misery. I do sincerely love Jess, and we...

Hi. Huh. I’m glad I spent some time reading here first. I’ve made a few mistakes starting off… I’m 40m, and been in this relationship (marriage) for 20 years. We have some pretty awful mismatches. I was an easy low-stakes attachment for her. I’m kinky and very sexual. My wife Jess is asexual...