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Happy Birthday my friend :D Make this year exactly what you want it to be!

You're welcome. I'm not as present on here as I used to be, but am always available to help in any way I can :)

I just want to comment on this idea. It would not be even a little selfish and definitely NOT abusive. It would be being true to yourself. Her wanting other relationships would seem terribly selfish and abusive to other mono people...but it is only being true to herself. What you need to do...

I should have been spell-checked, as well.

You've got to remember that my relationship works for me because I am not RP's husband. I probably wouldn't be very genuine in trying to convince any husband or wife that they should be ok with their partner being sexually intimate on any level with someone. It doesn't work that way for me...

LOL! You got me. I agree that he should be with someone of a monogamous inclination more than a generalization of his cultural background. My bad. :)

Dinner and a movie date I believe :)

3 years tomorrow! Tomorrow will be my third year sharing the gift of Redpepper's love and family. It's been an incredible journey so far with many new friends and several big triumphs. We've been living together as a family for over a year and have won over many extended family members with...

If you can get him to read a few books on opening up your relationship then that would be a start. Both of you should read together. Here's the thing though, he might simply not be willing to invest heavily in a person who is not monogamous. I think it would be very wise to explore this before...

Agreed.

What Park said :)

In short, Amber sounds like a nut job and a bitch, based on what you've written here. Hopefully, Tommy doesn't let his dick take control of his thinking brain. If she weren't so judgmental, manipulative and aggressive about this, now that she knows you don't want it, I wouldn't be so harsh. I...

Keep an eye on your personal health, AnotherConfused. You really need to make sure you are in a good place in life over the long haul. You've made some pretty big compromises and that is admirable, but don't lose yourself. Hopefully you will find greater closeness with your husband through...

In short, I'd say you have a spectator and not a partner at the moment, similar to the idea I talked about earlier in this thread, where some people will watch to see how much they can take. Setting up boundaries and compromising does work, but they are ultimately masking that you have...

Good night to you too my friend. Sleep well and enjoy your New Years Eve:)

Glad to hear you are doing good and back on a healthy track, my friend! :)

Commitment is about foundations for me. It's about people mutually applying themselves to achieve or build something. It means they will they weather failures with the same unity they celebrate the successes. It's about a level of trust that provides safety and comfort to take on other...

Do you still have that spark for your husband?

Yeah, her situation is a little different than that LOL! She wishes ;) In all honesty I think agreements, rules, compromises or whatever are great for a certain amount of time. But even needing to have them means someone is holding back and that is no way to live in the long term. What's more...