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Agreed...I've experienced this as well in the past.

Here's how I represented my own rollercoaster early into my relationship with Redpepper. It helped me gauge where I was emotionally and bring logic back into my mind sometimes. I'm not sure if it relates to you but I thought I would ad it.

I can't speak about anyone else but the root of my monogamy is my natural inclination to focus all romantic loving energy into one person. When I think of monogamous relationships, such as the ones I have had, the desire to have that singular focus returned to me had nothing to do with jealousy...

Thanks for sharing this journey with us my friend. You're an amazing man who's spirit has always touched me beyond the limits of this forum. Stay strong Mono

Great to hear InLovewith2 :) I'm celebrating getting my living space back after a sizeable flood. :)

In my opinion, this is the best statement you have ever written, Lilo. I think it is clear, very precise and reflects a valid point.

Sounds good! See you next time :)

I work at that time... Any chance of a coffe in the evening?

Are you in victoria??

On 24 hour duty and feeling great that RP and Derby are finally getting a date night! Give her a kiss for me.....but who am I saying this to ;)

I hope this comes out okay, but I have got to put something out there. DADT is fine. The energy behind the DADT is worrisome. Just be careful you aren't setting yourself up. I'll be honest-- people say "kissing" is fine, but we are all adults here. What does kissing actually entail? Close body...

In reading this entire thread, I am not surprised at your recent developments. Why? Because I ask myself these types of questions constantly from your hubby's perspective. A little explanation: There are a lot of times where I feel I would be perfectly good with RP becoming sexual with Leo. I...

Thanks for the birthday wishes and laughs DH! I would have responded sooner but I was doing too much sexual healing to free up some fingers for typing ;)

I woke up next to RP. It has already been awesome!

1 Year update! Well, it has been a fast and eventful year since I have moved into RP's house. Surprisingly enough, there have been next to no issues related to cohabitation, I am happy to say. :) We seem to have come to a balance and understanding of what areas of household functioning we can...

I don't see anything wrong with your request. I am very big on energy transfer, as well. I don't want to experience a lot of people's energy. And sexual energy is definitely not something I want to be exposed to, besides Redpepper's. I remember having sex with RP after she had a date with Leo...

I friended you. We Skyped recently :) There's lots of pics on my profile to give you a glimpse into our lives. Take care

I'm an apple slut. I'll fucking eat any kind of apple at any time of the day or night. I love those things! Judge me.

Yup. There has been no reclaiming of the word in my environment. It generally refers to someone who is "easy," and serves a purpose, but not someone you would have a committed relationship with or bring home to mom. Slut, skank, whore are all the same to the people I work with and often...

Force the issue, keep the kids despite how hard raising them alone can be...I'd say hes' hiding behind the argument that he wants them to have a mom and dad in there life to avoid the increased responsiblity...not much time to date when you are raising kids alone) and get on with his life with...