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  1. MonoVCPHG

    Introducing my boyfriend to my husband's friends...

    Great advice...metamours figuring things out is not just recommended but it is a sign of just how "ok" they are with each other.
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    Hi WinterRose and welcome to the forum! I've got a a similar Catholic background and have struggles in thinking outside of that box as well. Feel free to contact me or ask me anything. Good luck on your journey :) Peace and Love Mono
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    'Complicated' is one way to put it.

    Bingo. As a past cheater I can testify that I was lying to everyone involved. Don't tarnish yourself or your life with enabling someone to take the low road. If he's resourceful enough to pull off an affair, he's resourceful enough to be above board in getting his needs met. Affairs are...
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    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    Double yay!! :D:D
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    keeping life simple...things are good in the little bubble and apparently keeping the bubble little is what is creating that :)
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Life's Good! Our family and tribe is doing well :) I'm getting amped up about the idea of laife after 21+ years in the military. The future looks interesting at the very least!
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    Redpepper's journey

    Life is good :)!!! Can't wait to get away with you Beautiful :)
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    I'm sitting in bed with Lilo laying on our respective netbooks and just enjoying the moment. I've started up with an old passion I left over three years ago. Feels good to be back!
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    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    Family continuing to grow closer :) We just got back from a weekend at RP's parent's island cottage. The weekend was filled with group projects to make the vacation spot even more comfortable, creating bonding moments. I spent a lot of time working one-on-one with her dad, which was a lot of...
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    Happiness-- what is it?

    For me happiness is a moment where I feel no regrets of the past or concerns for the future. I am present and my body feels lite as though filled with a child's laughter. Those moments in their purest form are very rare.
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    You can really feel the positive energy in this post! Keep your pretty chin up and trust that people are wishing the best for you. Good to hear!
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    Bisexual, Pansexual, Polysexual...is it all semantics?

    Wow! I really respect your honesty on this thread Nycindie. I'll be honest as well. While I do think a lot of guys hide same sex desires, I also find openly bi-sexual men pretty easy to spot. I'm not alone in this and I don't think it is a negative thing. People who meet RP's hubby often ask me...
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Busy busy with instructing a course at work. Things are going pretty well despite the disruption the flood has caused. All things are moving along :)
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    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    I have to admit, I think if you asked 100 single guys if they would sleep with a married woman behind the husband's back then likely over half would say yes; as long as they didn't know the husband personally. Very few would engage in a relationship with that woman though I think. If they had to...
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Woohoo!! Looking forward to hanging out with Derby and other friends and watching RP work her burlesque magic! Life is good :)
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    Polyamory and monogamy as belief systems / paradigms

    Just passing on my views, opinions and experience. Consider it a stand alone comment.
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    Redpepper's journey

    No comment ;)
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    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    Sounds great! I'm glad you are thriving and enjoying the change in their dynamic. It really can work and there are some great examples for metamour friendships on here for sure:)
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    Redpepper's journey

    Thanks for helping me out, Lilo. :) You guys are doing more than anyone could expect to take care of the "tenant." I love you.
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    Peace and joy and love

    You and your daughter looked great! Very summery..summerery...nice summer dresses!
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