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Ah yes, I see. Maybe it's too personal? :confused: It would be good to know but just going on the evidence presented she should run away very fast and feel happy that she valued herself well enough not to put up with those toxic entitled attitudes.

Forgive me, but that is a weak excuse. First, not everyone goes in for the hierarchal 'I am the wife so I have the right to be demanding' schtick. Secondly, people, including secondaries, have the right to demand certain things, including not having their health and welfare be put at risk, not...

I think it is a sub-section of the larger manual 'How to act like a woman.' :rolleyes:

The OP said. What ever happened the OP appears to still love her ex but for whatever reason perhaps she was dumped, or the Wife did not really enjoy the sexual aspect, there are plenty of reasons which would make it impossible for a triad to continue, they no longer have a relationship for...

Forgive me if I missed something, but in that case wasn't, it just at the 'talking' stage, and that is what she was told (not asked, I hasten to add, told is the correct word) would happen once she had the baby? Wasn't it also the case that she was doing all the housework in the house and...

I agree, the worst thing was not disclosing it. What if she had given it to him, and his partner was pregnant? It is a pretty vile disease for a pregnant woman to get.

She and the wife are not on speaking terms, not sure how the OP is meant to have a relationship with someone she is not talking to? Also, he gave her an ultimatum, the triad or sod off...why on earth SHOULD she give in to that?

I got that because I also had a similar conversation.

it's ok.

It is a bow tie.

I squeed when I saw Capaldi, apparently Matt Smith IS the 13th, not Capaldi, so the mystery of only 12 regenerations is going to be solved in the Christmas special...looking forward....

Csmarie, I say this with all respect to you and all the knowledge of having been in a similar situation. Plus, I actually have a six-month old sleeping right here beside me. Things will change. It is inevitable. It could go any way. But I know deep down that I would soon as rip the face off...

We all have the right to live the way we want to live. It doesn't mean that we would necessarily 'get' it, but we have the right to seek it out. Why is your triad closed if you would perhaps want to be married again? If that need is important to you, seek it out, Poly means not having to end a...

Look forward to seeing it!

Depending on where you go on holiday, lots of hotels have family rooms, like two double beds to a room, do each of your partners have children or just one? I think it might be better if you have a separate room or failing that, rent a villa/house, and have the children in their own bedroom so...

Not having my own space killed me before, it was SO oppressive, I don't even like sharing my bed full time...nope, no WAY would I do that again. Imagine never...ever being able to be alone for a moment..... *nightmare!!!!!*

Hello Alex welcome, the UK contingent is small but mighty!!! ;)

Kevin did you totally miss my post about Flemish?

I hope that anger makes you feel better, but it won't sustain you forever. And women have forgiven much worse.....as you have done, so I wouldn't start dancing a jig so soon.

Than what you wrote to her was incorrect, you are ending it with him, that does not necessarily mean he is ending it with her. You have a right to be angry, but she doesn't owe you anything, she did not break faith with you, your husband did, he is the one who you should be directing your...