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Hi HelloKittyfan, Welcome to the forum. Hope you find the woman your looking for!! Nancy

Hi Scottman, Welcome to the forum... Polyamory will definitely help with the self introspection and personal growth... Nancy

Shouldn't a job and not living with his mother come before marriage and poly??? Are you living with them too? and kids? Your out with your kids if anything weird goes down? It sounds like something weird is going down, and you have no clarification on anything...

lol... I love your response.. :D

Yes, they are... lol You could try getting out of the house and doing something fun. Your also not going to meet anyone sitting with your mother in the house. Take up a hobby, join a gym, start running on a path (or walk), etc, etc...

Hi AKpolygirl Welcome to the forum. Does your husband and your fiancé have a friendship and/or communicate?

He has gotten better at not texting during sex??? I'd throw his phone out of a window if he texted while having sex, unless it was an emergency with a family member. Does he text you while he has sex with her? This seems like they are getting what they want, and you're getting a pat on the head...

If I were you I would do nothing with this guy unless there was open and honest communication with his other girlfriend... There are other men out there who will treat you the way you want to be treated.

Hugs... So sorry to hear that Belle won't stop and listen. This person she is seeing might not even be telling her the truth about the marriage. I believe in a previous post that Bea told Belle that her marriage was loveless or other wise not healthy (?). If Bea is being dishonest with her...

Hey there... I am the wife of a m/f couple. Though hubby isn't in the oil related industry, we live in the middle of oil country. I am also a photographer.. Sounds like we have a lot in common.. Can't wait to read more... Nancy

wow... You sound so positive that your solution is perfect for you and your going to be perfectly happy.... Your not thinking of the two other people involved in your relationship. What happens if they aren't ok with your happy picture? It sounds a bit self serving. You cheated and your happy...

If it's not all out in the open, eventually it will end in a mess... We (My hubs Nutbuster and I) have had the experience of the other person in the V that was cheating, and they (Nut and the other end of the V) were co-workers. It was hard for him to get over, it was hard for him to continue...

I think writing things out really helps put feelings and thoughts into perspective. Whether that be here, or in a journal, blog, email, etc... If the other guy has a girl that he is talking to or another girlfriend, is he being honest with her that he is also interested in seeing your wife?? I...

What he said!!!!!! agree....

Do you think you and your wife should be addressing the issue that or issues that caused the cheating? If this isn't addressed it could cause more problems between the two of you in the future. it isn't all that easy to say "I cheated and now the ladies accepted it and we're all doing great"...

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lololol oh BG...you never cease to entertain me... but it's (what you said) oh so true... :p

Good luck in your search. Please read as much as you can about polyamory. Finding a girl for you both or just her might not be as easy as you think. Keep communication open. Watching women and actually dating or sleeping with one is completely different and brings up feelings that you might not...

Your most welcome, LeeLee Nice to "meet' you too...

Would they treat the new baby any different or your children any different if there was a divorce and a new wife? Half siblings occur all the time from many different circumstances. Would they treat a foster or adopted child any differently? Would they treat the baby or half siblings different...