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  1. Malfunktions

    Your most recent OKC messages. post em here!

    I can haz grammar!
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    Your most recent OKC messages. post em here!

    Not far from there but yes, out of same town. It's kinda funny now.
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    Your most recent OKC messages. post em here!

    I'm starting to be frightened by OKC.
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    Your most recent OKC messages. post em here!

    When someone texts you and asks: Umm, what? I responded with: Scariest Response ever! Next response from him he says he never met me before... I find out who he was and...he was my 10 years older neighbour. At this point i stopped messaging. He proceeded to tell me he watched me on the...
  5. Malfunktions

    Mono submissive, new to poly

    Oh dear! Jane! You make me feel tame! Ok.. I give you make me want to be even less tame. ;)
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    Mono submissive, new to poly

    If I had a library then THAT'S WHERE I'D WANT TO PLAY! I'd open up all my favourite book and make a bed... But I guess the way I play I'd have to buy all new copies cause they'd be all wrecked and ripped.... So maybe I'd keep them on the shelves and just by a really big table..... With padding.....
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    Mono submissive, new to poly

    Mono jealousy vs poly healthy You mentioned that you are very mono. I see that this has somewhat been cast aside by the commenters, so I think I'll address it. First off, you say you've realized just how mono you are, are you working past this? Or are you going to attempt to remain very dead...
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    Not so smooth on your end? Yeah we're out and about here :) Spring is very busy for C too. It's...

    Not so smooth on your end? Yeah we're out and about here :) Spring is very busy for C too. It's when all the people realize they really should have gutters cause now that the snow is melting their basements are Gilling up lol.
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    Marriage, jealousy and new feelings..

    Agreed. Adding Liam to this situation does not offer Jayden the comfort of being given time to work this out, but actually stresses him more. We all have to make sacrifices for the ones we love. Liam will have to be yours til you work it out. And by that I mean TOGETHER! Actively address...
  10. Malfunktions

    If you want to be happy for the rest of your life...

    Now I'm gonna be singing that song all day. Oh, and sending it to my pseudo husband! Lol.
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    Marriage, jealousy and new feelings..

    Then I believe he's afraid you'll do the same. He needs reassurance from you that you won't end up leaving him. He's going off past experience and he's also ignoring your needs. If he knew before who you were, then he's trying to suppress you and have you all to himself. This is not good. If he...
  12. Malfunktions

    Hey! Haven't seen you around in a while! Hoping everything's working cool for ya!

    Hey! Haven't seen you around in a while! Hoping everything's working cool for ya!
  13. Malfunktions

    Marriage, jealousy and new feelings..

    It's a natural progression. Just like there are 7 stages of grief, there are stages to working through this. Communication is key, but I suggest giving him some time. If you can, maybe suggest to Liam that you need to chill til Jayden is on board. I know it sucks, but by pushing him, you may...
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    Marriage, jealousy and new feelings..

    Sometimes subtlety wins in the game of curiosity. I left a book in our bathroom magazine holder. He eventually got curious enough to read some of it.
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    Again with "lifestyle"

    As someone who committed this faux pas I question whether its a classification towards more of a side bar. Like people who adopt swinging as a "lifestyle" are what I would call, now, part-timers. Not fully in it for the long haul but merely for some fun for a bit till they retreat back to their...
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    Marriage, jealousy and new feelings..

    Sometimes getting to know their metamour helps. Not saying it will for him, but it's worth a try. Why don't the three of you go to coffee? Maybe he just needs time to absorb. Send him here. Do research together, watch shows on poly, read publications. Maybe he just needs the education.
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    Malfunktioning and meandering

    The movie was good but I'm just not feeling it from her.. I did something and I don't know what.. I keep my hands about me, Censure what I want to say, and try to act accordingly but her texting has dropped off :( she works an insanely difficult work schedule. On another note, I have a question...
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    Marriage, jealousy and new feelings..

    Your husband should accept who you are, but his insecurities are clouding both your and his mind. Is he afraid of sexual partners? Non-sexual partners? Or just not cool with you off with another man? Have you told him how you feel, how he's making you feel like a dirty bad guy for loving?
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    Suggestions on how to find out how my husband feels

    Why not sit him down and simply ask, "is your attraction to her playful? Or do you care for her?" If he stammers reassure him that it's ok you are attracted to her husband. Then mention that you came across poly. Explain to him that poly gives you the chance to define yourselves as individuals...
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    I wish I'd be going to LA! Lol that's like, hold on I'm gonna mapquest it, 5357.6 Km's or 3329...

    I wish I'd be going to LA! Lol that's like, hold on I'm gonna mapquest it, 5357.6 Km's or 3329 miles! :O o holy crap... I'm going to Florida next month and suffice to say that's the furthest I've ever gone. Besides, I'm a country girl it'd be overlad if I ever went to la! Ha ha! I have to admit...
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