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I am sorry to hear that but as you said you are strong! I commend you on all your hard work and effort. Relationships are hard and coming out to a SO is difficult, trust me, but if approaching the subject is so hard that they refuse to then the relationship needs some serious talk time. You...

My husband and I are only husband and wife in a pseudo kinda way. Not actually married but might as well be. 6 years have passed and no end in sight. I think we opened up to the possibility of poly because as a bi woman who NEVER though she'd be monogamous, I have been and I guess I'm getting a...

Lol "lance it and stick it out" Sounds like the preverbal band aid pull. Or... Popping a blister.... ************ Tonight is C's brothers b-day. I told him he was free to play. He looked at me like I had two heads and asked in a very squeaky voice...

Lol if your holding back a human maybe but they work just fine for mufflers! ;)

Ha ha ha! Believe it or not OUR HEADLIGHT IS GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING RIGHT NOW! Ok, so maybe duct tape fixes what's not as important but in reference to the canoe/crack paradigm I'd rather spend the days patching it than be in the middle of the river sinking... Swimming? Not my forte Yes...

You should always fix what's broken before attempting a quick fix. (I'm an outdoor survivalist so bear with my metaphors.) It's like a canoe that gets a crack. Do you throw a patch over it and work for days to smooth and sand, carefully making sure the seam is planed and patched countless...

Very valid point you bring up. Is it too bold to say maybe these partners, the ones claiming poly, only choose to bring it up because they are lacking in some aspects of their relationship? Ie, contemplate cheating then coincidentally come across the subject of poly and assume " oh! Maybe I'm...

I'd never been all that set on it but it has its ups and it has it downs as well.

Excuses In my Internet meandering I came across a blog with which the writer, presumably male, is accusing his wife of using polyamory as an EXCUSE to "cheat". He outlines their relationship and it all seems to check out, the only difference being that his wife has another boyfriend. Hello...

It really is a helpful site. Hi! You're only complicated cause you see it that way. I don't think your complicated at all. I, as well am, a bi-woman and my partner and I are also "seeking". It's hard to avoid the term I'm realizing so I'm not running from it. I'm just gonna go with that we're...

Significance is a victim of population too. I live in a city of approximately 65,000 people yet we have the second largest population of gay and lesbians per capita in North America. Second of course to San Francisco. So statistics play around with the per capita thing to make it seem...

I actually AM my worst critic :rolleyes: I usually know the minute I do, say, see anything, that it was wrong but I have a bit of an auto correct addiction... Meaning I'm way to reliant on it. I used to be a four or fives times proofreader but then I got an iPhone, then and iPad, and then...

Ugh!:mad: that would drive me! If it is because of lack of members I wonder if they know why. :/

Lol can you delete the post? It's too late to edit it, I see my errors in writing it and don't want to give off the impression I'm still that daft.

^That does not sound comforting to the outsiders looking in at all. I am sorry that it is that way for you. I feel that's a little barbaric in its reluctance to allow education. Isn't education the first step to acceptance? I mean, if I were a gay man, for example, wouldn't it be better to...

Ok really want to take this down now. Lol

Thank you for mentioning that! I agree fully with you, undefined. As there is (assumption based on lack of it magically appearing) no community here, am I, therefore, lead to believe, not a polyamorist? Or am I just someone with poly ideals?

Me too :)

Ok so here goes, After years of C wishing on every falling star, every eyelash, and even birthday candles I finally broke and said OK. What was he wishing for you ask? (Opinion) What do most hypersexual men who get involved with bi-women want? A threesome. It came out at a party once when...

The origins of Malfunktions are pretty self explanitory. At a time when most of my world was falling down around me I came to the realization that it was just me malfunctioning. I didn't understand why I couldn't hold down a single relationship longer than a few months. I wandered and...