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  1. Malfunktions

    we are a small polyfamily

    Btw, I happen to like boringguy's pic:)
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    we are a small polyfamily

    Fleurisseur, instead of poly- family, I think the word you are looking for is "harem". As in: "Imperial harem"-For the perpetuation of the Ottoman Dynasty and service to it, beautiful and intelligent slave girls were either captured in war (mainly Christian Europeans in the Balkans), recruited...
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    Added to, Joining In

    I do understand, and I'm not saying I'm not guilty of doing the same thing. I made a similar if not a little nicer post when I first came to the site, which I'm realizing was potentially unattainable and will be removing later. After doing a lot of research and coming to the realization that I...
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    Added to, Joining In

    Correcting or deflecting? As a newbie, and I apologize if I step on toes but, we're new. Kindly directing us on a better approach is much better than mocking our inability to have it right the first time. I've felt attacked before and it doesn't mean I didn't appreciate the correction but...
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    JayT is me, ...

    Hey! It's nice to meet you! Hopefully you enjoy your time here :)
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    Personal Summaries

    Poly stuck in rural no-where Hey Lovlies, My name is Mallory and I have always been interested in the poly lifestyle even though I didn't really know it had a name until recently. I am 27 and Bi. My real dream is to be nicely nestled in a MFM triad but as C is very straight and admits he would...
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    We are not all Unicorn Hunters!!

    You make some very good points. And I very much appreciate your taking the time, as well. I've asked C and we discussed the likely hood that we'll get our perfect end. Population, availability, experience, family and friends, these are all possible downfalls for us but with a little perseverance...
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    Baking with "found" food

    Mmm bannock! I wonder if it could also be good for naan
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    We are not all Unicorn Hunters!!

    I believe we'd hit that road eventually and I can't tell the future though I do have an idea that if they are more interested in him then I'd just move on and find someone else. I'm not overly clingy nor am I particularly jealous. He, however may take offence to that but as I said, I can't tell...
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    We are not all Unicorn Hunters!!

    Oh not worried at all, I happen to take criticism very well, and I do agree that wording could have have been better on my part. I definitely see everyone's points and are taking this all in :) I do not feel attacked at all. I am learning :) I do, however, feel the need to re-word the...
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    Added to, Joining In

    I think "welcoming someone in" could be just as it implies. Currently my LTR and I are seeking but we have our understanding that we want a relationship for each of us separately just as much as we want someone to share. The dynamic should be that the "welcomed party" should be as comfortable...
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    Sometimes its the little things that count.

    I still would tell her that you had the same sort of message. Sharing similar views like that is so important to help progress into such a change!:D
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    Baking with "found" food

    What about play doh? Or homemade moulding clay?
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    Brand-spanking-new to everything

    MaleFemaleMale
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    We are not all Unicorn Hunters!!

    Thanks:D Thatgirlingrey, you've made some spot on points and everything is open to perceptions. About the sharking thing- yes that it. We're 27 and 30 and do not troll the dance clubs looking for early 20's experiments. We should be judged on who we are not on label misconceptions. We are...
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    We are not all Unicorn Hunters!!

    "Another big problem is with the idea that the relationship must be closed. The existing couple gets to enjoy the deep, complex companionship of the settled, partnered, duo love they’ve built wih each other plus the rush of new love with their third, while insisting that the new partner only be...
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    Delurking

    Where in the maritimes? We're in NB
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    Brand-spanking-new to everything

    Sounds to me like a masculinity issue lol. Will he do it better, is ego an be bigger, will she ask to be with us both, will we have to touch.. Lol went through the same talk recently. Suffice to say I don't think I'll be getting my MFM ;)oh well, sacrifices right?
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    We are not all Unicorn Hunters!!

    The exact same That's exactly what I am thinking as well. You couldn't have put it better! Thanks a lot, I feel much better that someone agrees with me. :D
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    Question on which is easier?

    I have also lived in Oromocto currently We live outside Fredericton on the up river side :D
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