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Wow Aquamarine you have made such huge strides in your progress with life generally. I'm super sorry about your son going MIA, and I hope that's resolved peacefully at some point, but I'm also glad you have space to take care of you and your wife and Cat. It's very good to hear from you, and I...

Hey Kevin, I logged on yesterday but didn't get a chance to offer sympathies at that point. I don't see the direct reference now, but you have hugs if you want it. :) Glad the doctor appointment went well, and I'm hoping your toe is better.

This cracked me up so much.

Well I unpacked a lot of stuff with about my mom with my ever-reliable great aunt Honour. I miss the fuck out of that woman so much every day. <3 It was nice to touch base. I've been job hunting and resume building again. Things with Dreamer are fine, we started talking more about my last...

@ What Happened: This was said so much more eloquently than I said. Honestly, half the reason I don't post often is because, you all come up with ideas so much more quickly than I do. Often I reach similar conclusions but at a much slower pace, but this is almost word for word what I was...

I'm pretty sure my "sweetness" and has nothing to do with this topic. My lack of knowing where you live or your general context, which was assumed and not stated, did hinder general understanding of where you were going with this in the first place. Which as been corrected. I hope your...

@Ref2018 Can we politely ask some Canuks to migrate down? Context explains a lot thanks for that. @ Ravenscroft : I feel after finally reading the whole thread this is a "White american race problem" and not a "White -exclusive- Poly Problem." Which some how got pulled back to trump/politics...

I'm really confused by the start of this forum post. I personally know LESS white people involved in non-monogamy than I do other races. Not to mention, I know non-white people who even consider themselves white who are monogamous? You must be living in an area i like to call a "white bubble"...

I've been taking this vitamin specially for the liver, and I think it's been helping, along with spring happening. It's more like summer here, although summer will mostly be triple digits, we got into the 90's today. I went on a long walk with my dog since I couldn't make it to the gym. I even...

Hugs Opal. That is so rough, I'm so sorry they are treating her with less dignity and respect she deserves. Would it be possible to reach out to some support networks for people going through this? This is a lot on your plate, and being able to fight for Beaker will mean having yourself at tip...

So yesterday, I acknowledge that I really struggle with female friendships being platonic only if I get emotionally close to the woman, I end up feeling romantic. Even if the shape and things involved don't change. I've seen the pattern now in my blog, if they are close to my age and we spend...

I will miss your updates as you've given me a lot of food for thought over the years and I've enjoyed cheering with you in your happy moments and agnosing with you in the sad and stressful moments. You are very bright soul, and will be missed. But i'm also supportive of whatever decision is best...

I'm having some really fascinating conversations with Mr. Psychologist. Because he is currently leaving the mormon church and I have left, it's been rather therapeutic on both parties. He can't be a therapist for me though because he is a child psychologist and this wouldn't be his speciality...

Thank you Opal. I really needed that yesterday. Today is doing much better, but I imagine it iwll ebb and flow as I come to acceptance. Yes, you're right I am here for my gran. I did some self care and I reached out to Ariel yesterday, and she offered her spare room if I did ever get kicked...

So, my former-friend, Acton, who I thought we'd do the fade I wouldn't see in a long time because of the weird platonic-him-being-freaky-control-thing happened a while back...he contacted me today out of the blue. Apparently he is coming into my town here in october to do a theatre gig that is...

Today I am grieving the loss of the mother I never had/ wish I had. Taking of the denial glasses is hard. For years I worked through the hatred and then grieved and accepted my dad's role in becoming an incest victim. He is no longer in my life. Hasn't been for years and never met my kids. I...

In Utah polygamy (ironically) is illegal. Which is a type of polyamory IF practiced ethically... https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/tv/2017/01/23/sister-wives-polygamous-family-turned-away-supreme-court/96949942/ So yeah, illegal and morally shunned.

Are you on US or EU servers nerfherder? :) I'm Cattrah#21781 on EU if anyone wants to talk.

soem big stuff happened on the home front. My mom came in and had..what I'm starting to refer to in my head as an episode. She baited me and harassed me and grandma in our home, after letting her self in. She still doesn't approve of me locking my door. I dont give a fuck if she cares or not...

Oh I forgot to mention I didnt just slow fade with Xavier, i did have a talk with him. I told him I appreciate the gifts and attention but that becuase he was now in the army, I knew my needs wouldn't be met continuing with him since he's not much a texter, and if he can't text then he mostly...