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I think you can't speak to the inside understanding of a cutter Ravencroft unless you yourself are one and even then you'd only be speaking for yourself. I am not a cutter, but I got two tatoos on my wrist because I wanted to commit suicide by cutting once. I never became a cutter because I...

Anyone think the board could use a blog space for "Used to be poly?" I mean myself and a few others fall into this category, and I was wondering what other opinions on this might be. I don't want to close up shop just because I am not longer poly, *Right now* and I don't know if I will be again...

Hey Opal, Thanks for the reply ^_^ Yeah, I am used to making adult friends with kids, and right now I'm struggling on making friends because recently it's all been childless people. There's nothing wrong with not having kids but I feel like most of my friends here are..just very very different...

Thanks Powerpuff :) So I guess I could update about my social circles who are poly. A shit storm happened in September/october with this female friend who I mentioned in passing. Basically it caused me to stop considering her a friend because I was fine with her being interested in the other...

It's been some time since I updated. The move shifted a lot of things. I stopped working at the studio/gallery because I had done a trial period with them, and really loved it. But the cost of a home, and helping my families business and getting settled in didn't allow for me to allocate...

Happy belated birthday! And you do look fabulous. :)

I signed the papers today. I'm now a proud owner of two houses on one lot. My mother and father will live in one house, and my grandma and myself in the other smaller one. I am pleased to be finally finally be able to give back to family who have done a lot financially for me over the years...

Not much to update in poly world. In the ironic twist of fate, the lady I was seeing is now interested one of my friends who i went on one date with previously LOL. Funny world. I had a bday a few weeks ago, and that was fun, so much has happened this last month I haven't had time to update at...

@ Powerpuffgrl, I know, right? lol. So kissing frogs continues. I went to a meetup straight away with a poly dude local, and he's in a really bad place, probably shouldn't be dating and it was very apparent we had nothing in common. While sitting at the bar discussing this, and him asking only...

So a weird turn of events for the supposed to be date yesterday: I will call him Mr Priorities for the purpose of this story as I have no intention of contacting him again. So. He sets up this date with me, asks me out, asks to bring along his partner for coffee part to meet me, asks to extend...

So I finally have some non-heavy stuff to talk about! :) So one work front: I have 1 exhibit in october coming up, for two small works. I'm working on some large paintings to go with my continued theme to get into a more professional gallery. I'm working on a wall mural so then offer wall murals...

I'm so glad your dad is stable. :) I understand hard choices with this. I am cherishing ever moment I have with my family, life is short and precious that way. Gosh, I understand cutting someone out for that, you must protect yourself and you've been making great personal strides with therapy...

Hugs Mya, I hope it goes ok and you get plenty of self-care time after the meetup with jasmin. I'm so sorry things didn't work out as planned. :(

Thank you, Powerpuff. I don't have words for how his has scarred and changed me. But it has. Theres days I just don't think I can get up and keep going, but somehow I do. We all have our battles. If being me isn't "good enough" for the courts, then, I am too tired and weary and broke, to prove...

I finally had that poly talk with Vinny properly, after chewing him out for flirting with me and lying to himself about his attraction to me. It started with a conversation he said he had a dream about me not being friends or lovers. Then telling me that he saw this site, i told him about, but...

Give yourself time to feel, time to grieve. Take it one day at a time, and be kind to yourself.

So. I haven't been here in awhile because i've been in a deep introspective and contemplation mode. My ex has decided not to let me see the kids or have them come out. I can't go to court again to amend stuff, no money, and so so very weary. So. I've decided to just live my life. And on that...

So I quit the job because I knew I couldn't finish the training. It was unreal what they expected. I cant go into specifics but I made the best tactical choice for me. This happened monday, so tuesday has been recoup day, and tomorrow is going to sign up for a temp agency, to find more work. I...

Well my back hates me today. I used a cloth back brace, and a tenz machine, and I went in the pool today. Also been taking ibuprophen. But i'm still having issues. I have contacted a lot of different physios but i'm leaning towards a womens clinic who also deals with post pregnancy and...

I got spontaneously asked out on a friends breakfast and book reading this Sunday but i turned him down till next Sunday as we just saw each other too recently. He's starting a DND group in Sept I might join in and says he knows someone he wants to set me up with O.o He sent me a picture of the...