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NYC lead me to this thread when I posted about state laws once. This is it: Legal Links How far are you willing to relocate?

http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=69959 This post was a month ago. I've discussed more of how I'm handling it there. The loss of self-worth over 21 years, in retrospect, is not worth it.

Today sucks. I started feeling an icky tummy as soon as I got off work yesterday. 4 am, it's worse and by 6:30 determine I best stay home. I've been trying to get some work in, but my brain isn't too functional. Looks like I'll be working on the weekend. Why do I constantly offer up a...

Have you been tested for fibromyalgia? Pain throughout the body & fatigue are symptoms. Check this site:http://m.activebeat.co/your-health/the-10-most-common-signs-of-fibromyalgia/?utm_source=google&utm_campaign=adwords&utm_medium=cpc&utm_keyword=fibromyalgia&gclid=CPTX-9rM6r4CFcmXvQodsmMAqw

Well apparently my blog was utilized by Dude in trying to sabotage bassman & wild orchid's relationship by dude. Yep that's right. I never, in my wildest dreams, imagined what I wrote here would be outed to any one I had not shared I felt comfortable with them reading my inner thoughts nor that...

I wish you luck with your quest. I've read here and in a lot of poly Facebook groups of couples who've been searching for the same thing for 10+ years with zero hits. What you are seeking is rare & thus, the reference of a unicorn. Try some searches here using words like triad & unicorn. You...

I spoke with my insurance company since its new as of January. For me to get it covered I have to go in for my annual exam and have the doc call it "preventative" services. I have a link at work I'll share tomorrow on getting std testing to not be "medical" but "preventive" then there is no cost...

I have to read a lot of divorce decrees while preparing tax returns. So far I've never read about child support extending beyond the 18th birthday nor about any obligations to pay for it. As far as FASFA goes it isn't that the parents are made to pay for it only to determine eligibility for...

Which states require a parent to pay for postsecondary education? I have a teen going off in 2016 so it'd be best to know which states colleges are in she should not apply to.

Seems to me your "aloofness" is actually hurting a connection from going further. See you aren't aggressive, so you're now a "conquest" for these males but as soon as you become "interested" the chase/conquest is over. Just a thought that hit me as I read your post.

OP - are you still living with her or have you moved into your own place since your metamour lost his shit? Honestly you are trying to hard and this hinge needs to step up & deal with her husband without your involvement. The husband doesn't want poly so being in his face (to be buddies) won't...

Thank you copperhead - bassman is reading this thread but has agreed to not be angry with me on it. Acceptance is key for both of us to move forward. If he does read this thread again, fingers crossed he'll look at the links you provided. As you said "I can't do the work for him" but I can be...

To those whom I may write about here in my blog: this is my place to write my thoughts, anxieties, worries, joys, etc. It is my interpretation of our involvement together, whether it be virtual or real life, this is my journal so to speak. Please respect it as such and realize this is my...

Update: I am working on me and he on him and we on us. Counseling - will be an option for the future. There are other financial impacts that are taking our resources (very important for our financial health that we stay on task with this short term goal) and no, I hardly rarely drink and same...

So you've already discussed with hub your exit plan, so to speak? It is possible at this time his lack of desire for friendship is him reacting to the pain of the reality of how you feel, at least what you have told him so far on how you feel regarding your marriage. It is possible after the...

cont from previous thread: She and I also discussed the goals of when she'd pickbup bassman and pnutt from the house and then princess from daycare on the way out of town (remember they live about 45 minutes from us, wild orchid and her family). Pnutt was struggling with being away from me for...

So last weekend I had some emotional trauma that began Friday night and escalated Monday evening. I have discovered I am vulnerable to degrading tones and anger directed at me. What I've worked so hard not to give into I did, I threw punches and hated myself immediately afterwards for succumbing...

Happy Birthday!

Just an FYI I am not perfect I kissed a co-worker 7 months after we married. I cheated in 1999-2001 off and on. Last June I had 4 nsa sex and thus cheated again. This is posted so you know I am not perfect and have my faults.

Lol I don't get it :confused: now he's upset I made this post and won't talk to me.