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is it the deadline, yet? I wish it was. Worked from home sat & sun (kinda nice) and today is my 8th day straight. Was up to 71 hours when I logged off last night. Tomorrow the boss is taking the entire (small) tax department out for drinks and dinner. We're done at 6 pm. Wednesday is a day...

No he's a white "tree hugger" as he calls himself.

OP, why did you marry spouse if only 7ish months after marriage you're almost ready to call it quits? A mistake? Poly's hard and takes lots of patience, empathy & trust. It just seems like you don't want to give your husband a choice for himself, back then nor now.:rolleyes:

I met Hook on Sunday. Oh my! Every time I looked into his eyes, at him, I felt like I've known him, sometime from my past, years ago. Not possible.:p Hook, very tall, dark and ruggedly handsome. As soon as we met, we kissed. He kissed me deeply, passionately. Our first meeting was a park in...

Today I noticed a new status OPEN RELATIONSHIP on okc, so I'm now updated to that from married.;)

I get a notification only if I 5* and the other person 5*s back. I'm able to see whom I starred under "quick matches".

What type of questions are on the co-habitation form? Just curious. I'll pm you my email if you don't mind sharing.

My kids, ages 3 (doesn't understand), 8 & 16 know. Never once did we tell them to not tell anyone. When we visit the in-laws, my son has not once ran to my mother-in-law to tell her "my dad has a girlfriend". Why not? We never said "don't tell" and so after the talk(s) my 8 year old never...

I was going to say the same thing yesterday. But I don't think she's the same one. Isn't that "Snic85"?

Sometimes bassman can say things that make me feel like I might be a hypocrite. This week, I have had a few messages from a couple of cuties I'd like to meet. I am still working 6-7 days a week and my last "date" or more fwb sex was back in February. One of the guys...well I'd say if he's for...

You can't assume he's hiding anything. Why not just ask him rather than wonder since all that is doing is opening up Pandora's box in your mind and our minds, our minds create ways, too often, to wreak havoc that's not there. Always best to ask and then you may find out it's nothing more than...

I am curious about the life of those who are parents but not married yet are poly and in multiple relationships. Were you married to your child's other parent? Were/are they mono or poly? How has life been with dating, possibly single parenting but maybe co-parenting, for you? Just trying to...

I state I am poly on my okc profile and even link to my spouse's profile. When I am contacted, the first question I'll ask the person is "Did you read my profile"? One reason is the viewer only looks at the pic and sends a message. If the answer is yes, then I ask them if they are ok with...

After reading some posts lately, you know, the ones about it not being fair the boyfriend cancelled the date due to an emergency at home or that a trauma like trigger has caused the wife to need her "primary" partner. When I lost compersion, it was exactly this. We had a major crisis happen...

Although you've been with T for some years, it sounds like he truly has some abandonment concerns. And you even stated If your mind wanders to this leaving T for C thought, is it possible T can sense that and that's what is causing his constant questioning? The other side of this is due to T...

Rules - acts of control - can wave their wand as a boundary, when in reality, it's a rule. A spouse is a partner, an equal, but sometimes for their comfort level a rule gets used and is coated as a boundary. Need to discern when she states a boundary whether it is just that (her boundary for...

I've met my metamour, went out to dinner with her and her husband and my husband (metamour and spouse sat next to each other and we're sort of on a date). I like my metamout, I like her husband but I currently don't want besties with them. Nothing against them. They are wonderful people but...

I am not trying to defend the ex-boyfriend or come off as mean but have you thought at all on your pregnancy being more than he could handle. I don't know his side but in another thread where you mention this he is okay with it (before sex enters your relationship). Is it possible he felt more...

Having an 8 year old boy myself this is how it got brought up for us. When he saw his dad give wild orchid a kiss good bye, he told bassman "i'm telling mom". So I wasn't there for the conversation. Bassman just told him I have a boyfriend too (which I don't at this time nor have I since our...

Just across the river from Vancouver is Portland. If you want to get out and about I highly recommend the jaunt.