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  1. alibabe_muse

    Herpes

    Mag.. pnutt developed extreme eczema when he was 6 months old. And a young child can't stop themselves from scratching so he'd do it so bad he'd be bleeding. After years of removing foods from diet I took him to an allergist. Discovered his biggest allergy is tree pollens, mostly alder trees...
  2. alibabe_muse

    Anxiety - Not ready

    This is true but it appears to be from my lack of empathy when we discussed poly half a year ago. He struggled badly and in a way, although he doesn't agree but his words do, payback from not changing my mind on poly. He struggled every morning but by afternoon was ok with the idea. Also, even...
  3. alibabe_muse

    Anxiety - Not ready

    Friday I received a text from the hunter asking if we were still on for today. Seeing that shocked me a bit as I was under the impression bassman had discussed my anxiety with wild orchid and that I was not ready. Again my issue got lost in translation somewhere. I text'd wild orchid asking if...
  4. alibabe_muse

    Does anyone here like to cook?

    I'll ask bassman when he gets off work. He's a chef.
  5. alibabe_muse

    little quirks, that's me

    Last Friday night I went to kickboxer's (formerly KB somewhere in this blog) new place. First time we met not at his work. I had a good time. Hooking up as fwb has been over 7 months in the making. He's definitely reserved and going through a lot. He just moved that Monday before hand into his...
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    ISO SouthernGal

    Isn't it interesting how this is working out? It's about the same for us. In the beginning, I had tons of contacts on okc which unraveled bassman. I hadn't even made dates and he had a hard time with it. And now, viola, he's in love and has a serious relationship. Yes baby steps...it's the...
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    A Mono's Journey Into Poly-Land (or, "Aw hell, there's no road map?!")

    I empathize with this. I think I'm 50/50 intro and extroverted. I have phases where all my communication was online and just happy, content being stuck in a bubble. Then at times, I get the stir crazy, gonna climb the walls feeling that I'm going to go crazy if I'm stuck at home (Fridays always...
  8. alibabe_muse

    Anxiety - Not ready

    update bassman and I discussed this in more detail last night. I started fretting about not being respected as it seemed on Tuesday night when we discussed this he said "i'll compromise and just not be in this environment". Well that's not what I was looking for in a resolution. I really do...
  9. alibabe_muse

    Darby's for breakfast on 5th. Budd Bay restaurant east side of the sound, past the Farmer's...

    Darby's for breakfast on 5th. Budd Bay restaurant east side of the sound, past the Farmer's Market. Ramblin Jacks on 4th almost across from City Hall. Cicada a few blocks up from Ramblin's. Koibito if you like Sushi. Brewery City Pizza, three locations west side, Lacey & Tum water. Those are my...
  10. alibabe_muse

    I grew up K to 12 there and returned for 9 years until we moved east to Idaho. It was more...

    I grew up K to 12 there and returned for 9 years until we moved east to Idaho. It was more family driven needs for the move and a new baby. I do miss Oly but I have family still there so visits do happen just not as much as I'd like. If you ever want word on good eats or activities, just ask...
  11. alibabe_muse

    My Partner is Jealous of (Potential) Sugar Daddy

    My response is only in regards to your financial student loan situation. Have you applied for a deferment or forebearance? There are financial hardships, unemployment ones (even if you don't receive unemployment as long as you are registered with your state's unemployment department you would...
  12. alibabe_muse

    Wanted to give you a big WELCOME to the PACIFIC NORTHWEST! I grew up mostly in Olympia and just...

    Wanted to give you a big WELCOME to the PACIFIC NORTHWEST! I grew up mostly in Olympia and just think you and your family will really enjoy the culture in addition to the weather. I have to warn you, there may not be as much sunshine as you were told.
  13. alibabe_muse

    Anxiety - Not ready

    NYC - oh I like that. Never even thought about that. A signal is an excellent idea. THANK YOU!
  14. alibabe_muse

    Anxiety - Not ready

    That is it exactly LR! My partner, bassman, and I discussed this yesterday when I picked him up from work and again before he headed over there for his overnight. He completely understands and although at some point in time he'd like for me to "hang" with all of them, realizes I am not ready...
  15. alibabe_muse

    Advice please

    OP has not stated exact ages so assuming until facts are known won't help anyone to give thoughts that are accurate to legalities. I agree if 17 may be age of consent depending on the youngest person's age of this Vee.
  16. alibabe_muse

    Need help connecting better with my metamour

    Presently I'm in a situation where not only does my metamour want girlie bonding time she and her spouse (my husband's metamour) want family bonding time. I'm not ready for it. I feel like I'm getting pushed to do what everyone else wants but not what is comfortable to me. That's when I...
  17. alibabe_muse

    Anxiety - Not ready

    London - thank you for your reply as well. :)
  18. alibabe_muse

    Anxiety - Not ready

    Thanks YouAreHere! In response: #1 - at this time, in front of pnutt the 8 year old boy NONE besides a hug. Our oldest has had the poly talk and in all honesty NONE for her too since she's bothered by her dad and I kissing in front of her. #2 - I've been fine in the past with them sitting...
  19. alibabe_muse

    Anxiety - Not ready

    Sooo, wild orchid and the hunter have invited us over for a BBQ on Sunday. When the invites were happening yesterday I honestly thought it'd be postponed for a bit or wouldn't be so soon (original invite was for Saturday). Kids are invited too and the hunter's OSO (other significant other)...
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