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I have a high sex drive but I didn't want to have sex with Butch for over a year. Why? Because he would take an intimate moment and try to warp it into his kink and all about him. From two weeks into dating I told him flat out that I was VERY vanilla in my sexual tastes. I have no urge to beat...

No you need to realize a triangle shaped peg is new going to fit a round shaped slot. No amount of manipulation is going to get it to fit. You either need to accept that or find at round shaped peg to fit that hole. Sometimes we do not get want we want or need out of a relationship no matter...

Look poly destroys the best marriages. Even when both partners happily go into poly. You need a joyous hell yeah from both parties for opening a marriage to have any chance of working. You say you marriage isn't broken but yet you say.. This is not a wife happily agreeing to help her husband...

You don't fix a broken marriage by adding partners. Unless you want to destroy your marriage further. People are not sex toys to spice up your life. It is unfair to drag someome else into a potiental minefield. No sane women with any sense is going to want to be involved in that mess.

How do y'all find the time for everything? I make time. I have a small zoo and have a tween and a teen. I get up early in the morning to take care of my pets whenI am hime. When I am not my kids do the animal care. I have 2 dogs, 2 cats, 4 birds (Conure, cockatiel, and 2 budgies), a ferret...

Honestly once I make plans with one of my partners I never back out or change plans unless I was a dolt and forgot an important kid event. If the other partner freaks out I deal with the aftermath. Even early in my relationship with Murf I never changed plans because Butch was uncomfortable.

No abusive women in my life. No mean girls, etc., in my life. I do not give two craps about what others think of me, never have. I was known for stuffing bullies into lockers and dumpsters in high school. I cannot stand folks who bully those weaker than themselves. I have always enjoyed...

I said it before I will say it again Awpti is a sloppy hinge. Stop defending his bad behavior. He is the core issue in your conflict with your metamour because he keeps adding gasoline to the fire by filling you in on what she says. Both of my husbands have said stupid shit about the other in...

Because there are heterosexual poly women like myself who enjoy the company of men. I do not find women attractive at all. And I have a sex drive the average man in my age group can not keep up with long. My friends have been mostly male over the years. I do not enjoy activities most women...

and These two statements right here would make you an automatic no for me. Basically it tells me I would be second to you current partner and that what I want wouldn't matter because she is #1. Second of all you sound like you could be just looking to date because she is aka tit for tat poly.

My question is why is the hell is Awpti sharing this statement with you?

Because everyone has the right to privacy in their relationships. My husbands both have no interest in group sex and neither do I. And definitely have no interest in having sex in front of each other. Just because I have a relationship with someone be it romantic or platonic that does not give...

What is your question exactly? This is a board about polyamory.. Having loving relationships with more than one person at the same time that may or may not involve sexual activity. Polyamory does not equal group sex. In fact I have been actively poly for 10 years and I have NEVER had group...

https://www.swingersboard.com You coould google swingers message boards. The one I posted is active... You may get advice suited to the lifestyle you are looking to live. Here the poly people have feelings or are open to feelings with more than one partner.

Others covered any questions I had.... I only wanted to add. This is a message board about polyamory. Meaning we believe in loving relationships with more than one partner not NSA sex. Not that NSA sex is wrong. Just not what this place is about.

Sometimes we love someone and they are just not a good match.

Your wife has told you she DOES NOT want polyamory right now. You are just not listening. She watched her mother bend to the wishes of her husband and she is doing the same. Look poly destroys the best of relationships. You do not drag a broken and fragile partner through polyamory. My...

If you loved your wife you would not ask her to sacrifice her emotional well being and force her into a situation she does not want.. It is very selfish to torture your partner that way.

Suicide is a long term solution to a short term problem... Please seek help ASAP.

Do you not trust your wife? The phrase sabbatical over vacation is weird though since sabbaticals are a month to a year long and refer to taking abreak to fulfill some goal by definition. Is she trying to decide whether or not she wants to married any longer. I take vacations with Murf every...