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I officially have a little over 2lbs to go to get to my original target weight. I might go a bit lower as I seem to put it back on very quickly.

So you have this person who frequently/mostly treats you like shit but they pop up with grand gestures along the lines of " I will pay for a house for you" and lawyers fees and trips to here there and everywhere. But mostly they treat you like shit. Eventually, you understand that they do treat...

Thanks Pig Pink. I was talking to my dad this morning and he said the exact same thing about there going to be a big hole. I don't really know. Prof and I have had a very up and down relationship over the years. Lots of good times but there have also been considerable periods of it being bad. I...

Maybe I'll post and not delete. It also depends on the captcha monster... I met Ms Cherry last night. We kind of had to because a) There was not way I was doing all that driving and not need a pee break and b) Prof can't be scheduling around women. Prof sent a wall of text of text, stern...

My scale has recovered from whatever brain farts it was having and I realized I have very little leeway in CICO. Back to under the decade.

Evie: Do whatever you can when you can! I think it mostly the CICO for weightloss but the gym for feeling good. I hit the gym twice this weekend but it is virtually impossible for me to do weekdays. Whatever. I feel flexible and strong for a couple of days. My scale is just awful. There was...

Vicki: The captcha monster gets me regularly :( I have never considered myself to be "sodium sensitive" but after reading a ton on the reddit " loseit" pages and mostly daily tracking...the 2 days after a salty and/or processed food I really hold water. I ate waaaaaay to much sugar today so...

Vicki: I though I sent you a PM but I think it was eaten by the captcha monster :( I am probably mostly the same weight. But I am learning not to eat anything even vaguely salty before my weigh in on Friday. I don't even enjoy salty food, in fact I avoid it because I don't like it. But...

I tried to PM you. The "Catcha" monster might have eaten my message.

As a mostly secondary type person, and I have identified as Solo for years,... Look again at GalaGirl's posts. These are the fundamentals. I did bad marriage, I left when kids were still in diapers, I did all sorts. I came out of it more highly educated and utterly financially free. Pets and...

Thank you Pink Pig for the kind words. It is comforting to hear that it is not only me that finds the drama partner gets the attention. I do try to be vague in my writing but it's kind of hard sometimes. I could private blog but I enjoy the community here and receiving input. There is a lot of...

Are tears and drama the only way to get a point across? I simply just can't believe human beings are so ignorant that tears and drama are what it takes. I had some tears tonight. Genuine tears of "Do not keep me in the dark and do not withhold information." Tears had an effect that rational...

Feels like I should up my emotional drama game. But I am not really that person. Mr Lime is telling me next weekend is likely off due to Ms CG turning up announced at his home and demanding to "talk". Can you see the reaction if I tried that? Because I wouldn't. I am just laughing. Dudes, go...

I am terrible at the quote system! Most of my response is in the text box. I actually like performance kind of sex. I am not a snuggle under the sheets with the lights out kind of sex person. I do expect my partners to be enthusiastic lovers and to really enjoy sex. I don't want to share my...

I did a Thursday weigh in and I am either up 2 lbs or stayed the same. This electronic scale business in annoying. I tried moving it from the tiled kitchen to the tiled bathroom so the surfaces are flat but still it can vary up to 4lbs + . I had a good week of eating so not taking any of it to...

Thank you Vicki. I appreciate your message. It is so hard doing poly with someone who is legitimately unwell. Last night I played a little "predict the behavior" with Mr Lime.There was very little talk of Ms. CG apart from he said she is a very angry person and she is texting him. One $10...

There was lots of really nice hard fucking last night. Shortly after Mr Lime arrived he was mumbling about leaving and not staying the night. I told him it was fine if he needed to leave. He elaborated the he wakes up at 1 am and how would I feel about him leaving then. I said that has never...

Mr Lime is expected shortly and he booked all of my upcoming kid free weekend. I am taking that as positive. Prof has decidedly chosen Ms Cherry as his person to go through the up-and-comings with. After a very good therapy session last night, I am fine with it. My role with Prof is never...

I talked with my sister and parents. They both said to not take things personally as he will be overwhelmed and trying to digest. He does have a huge network as well and family and adult children. There is actually not likely much need for me right now. He will be swamped with offers of support...

Sex and romantic love. All the regular business if life is shared.