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I had a very good weekend with Prof. Lots of sex, hanging out and some naps. I was worried about simply hanging out with him as we are always busy, but I thought I would just see what he came up with. He said he needed to go out to his property and do some work so I went with him. It was very...

I have give up chillaxing for now as I am not very good at it. I can do it in blocks of time, maybe a couple of hours to sit and read or watch some tv, but not having a schedule is not my style. Relaxing is easier when busy, if that makes sense, I can really appreciate having a sit down if I...

Mr PoD just unmatched me from Bumble. He tells me his usual style is to break up with people in text, so maybe that will happen next. It is likely he is done as I had sent him a message not all that long ago asking if he is around, seems a bit too coincidental or it maybe one of a million other...

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Mr PoD and the angry continues... via text, this time it is because I said I didn't have the kids for a week so he booked a fancy restaurant for Sunday. He didn't actually ask if I was free on Sunday before making the reservation. I replied that I might be out of town but wasn't sure yet if it...

The dinner was amazing. Mr PoD ordered 3 starters, beet salad with goat cheese, stuffed peppers and falafalesque. The presentation was gorgeous and there were mini pale blue pansy flowers as garnish. I love pansies and grow them every year, so it was a bit fun to eat them and not just admire...

Mr Chef popped up about 10 minutes after I logged off. His appointment lasted 3 hours and involved the use of the words arteries and scopes. He said he had come home exhausted, sore and went to bed. He sent me a few pics as I was heading to bed. How do I end up with the these men who are up all...

After some fairly set plans for Mr Chef to call me tonight after an appointment, he has not. As I know the nature of the appointment, I am assuming it did not go well at all and the news was probably the definite end of his career in that field. I know his family lives one street away and he has...

Mr Chef: I researched the menu at one of the restaurants and no, we will not be going there, or at least I won't. More money for the basic tasting menu than many people make in a week. :eek: I am sure it is a fabulous experience but I'd rather camp for a week for the same cost. Mr Chef then sent...

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Breathemusic, I am so sorry to read your update. Veto sucks and those that wield it after 2 years because of their own emotional mess are the type of people that you don't need. I hope Mrs Hyde finds what she is looking for by cutting you off, likely she won't. Internet hugs. I miss your posts...

Mr Chef popped up today and replied to a message that was part of a conversation 2 weeks ago. I had been reading an article about restaurants and recognized a the name of a chef he had worked and sent him the link plus a couple of ones that made the " ones to watch" segment of the article. So...

Continued: He maintains that I have a low E.Q. which I think is not untrue and he has had a few times where he wanted to block me but hasn't because he knows I "don't have a mean bone in my body,". It very interesting dealing with a partner who has their emotions flying in the breeze. There is...

Had an okish night with Mr PoD. He is quite an angry person and during general conversation I picked up quite a few indicators that his baseline emotional state is slightly annoyed and that is easily ratcheted up to "furious". Apparently I made him "furious" on Weds and have made him "furious" a...

The guy I have been chatting to on and off for 6 months asked to reschedule tonight. I was actually relieved because I am not particularly in the mood to get showered and changed and head back out to meet someone I might not connect with. I wouldn't have cancelled but it was feeling like more...

Entirely not feeling the need for a live-in partner or anything like it. I am enjoying the solo poly life. I have no concerns about what partners are doing in our time apart. I was worried about being a bit bored and listless with the kids being away but work is sucking up a lot of time. People...

I consider it to be an entirely different question when asking how to support a meta dealing with these issues. I don't really think you can. If she wants to best first/most/best and is in a hierarchical relationship then that relationship structure probably supports her desires. I foresee...

Prof was all for making plans when I saw him. Let's go see Solo, let's use the tickets you have for such and such, let's look at a summer vacation... It's as if the big disappearance never happened. He did explain in detail what had occurred on the day he had the meltdown, but that doesn't...

It depends. Occasionally, I want to best, first, and most. I can be quite competitive. Most of the time, no. There are a number of things I am not best, first or the most at, nor do I wish to be, and I am fine with that. It is certainly nice to treated as someone special from time to time by...

Interesting kind of night with Mr PoD. He was fine to let me stay over, we had some okish sex ( he doesn't like condoms so actual penetration is limited ) and then he started talking. Holy Moly. He is so like Prof talk, talk, talk. My therapist pointed out, after meeting Prof a number of times...