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Indeed, good to hear from you. And there is progress :) Hoping that you will continue to move in a direction that brings you more calm, rest and security in life.

Thanks That's all there is, indeed Miss Indie. I don't know what else I could do or say to make it better. Thanks to all of you, your worries and all the virtual hugs are appreciated. I know that no one can do anything to make this less ... certain/unfair/painful/hard on us. I have no idea...

What to say, which words to choose to describe the undescribable? Lin got tested, we will never be able to have a biological child. The worst case came true. I don't know how to support him and I don't really know how to react besides being shocked. I am scared and worried for his health, he is...

Hm :) You sound like me. Totally ^.^ That's what my start into poly looked like. My/our journey is documented on here if you care to have a look (see signature). Most of your questions were part of my first post on here and are discussed in my blog. I would advise you to listen to the needs...

What would rub me the wrong way is him thinking to be a superior 'power'/'official' who is in a legitimate position to judge who deserves what and why. That's not his call to make. He isn't the one 'granting' something here. Because that would mean, he is in charge of you and in some weird way...

Man plans, fate laughs ... Having a 'not so good' time right now, actually. Some things changed and I am still thinking about a way to deal with that. Sward has been to the urologist. Bad news :( His spermiogram says that there is too few sperm for us to get pregnant in a natural way...

First of all, talk to your wife. This isn't ok if you never talked about the possibility before and she clearly planned to cheat. That's no basis for an open and honest relationship where you are able to feel comfortable. Set boundaries and limits that are ok for you in the process and make...

I just noticed that I forgot to update my age in my sig. I am 30 now. ;) My blog starts with some confusion about poly as well. But we made it work. In April of this year we will have been involved with the poly topic for two years. I won't say that this makes us seniors, but I guess we have...

In our case, I felt really disturbed when I noticed that the other overheard me having sex with one of them. Our bedrooms are right next to each other, so it happens occasionally. But our routines are quite diverse. That's why normally my husband and I go go to bed at different times than my...

I guess there have been quite some messages ... I received one as well. Interesting way of building a family. Randomly picking up strangers on the net won't work ... as far as my humble opinion is concerned.

Why not go for friendship first? If you are looking for a relationship and would love something longterm to develop, get to know her. You don't have to jump into it and have all the time in the world. Get to know her, establish a good friendship and maybe things will be sorted out by themselves...

We have had this talk. My husband doesn't specifically have a kink for it, but he was curious as well. In our case, it was right off the table, because neither my boyfriend nor I would have liked that. It depends on the people involved. If all of you are okay with this, have fun. But if even one...

Maybe it would be better if our situations were reversed ;) I will not able to act on it if there would ever be 'something'. She noticed me because of my comments and our discussions. Maybe you should start to speak up a bit more ^.^ We will see, it's still some time till the end of semester...

Got this almost every evening and I love it :D Yeah, for TV-sandwich-cuddle-time :cool:

I know ... as I said, that's the Chimera standing behind this cup of coffee mentally :o I know that this may be pointless in this case, I was just reminded of what I DON'T want to happen in the future.

I know, it should be simple ... :D Let's see if I am capable of that.

General outlook: Falling in love, again (Heh … you really got me thinking; thanks rory ^.^) Ok, aside from the un-/likeliness of 'something' ever being there in her case … just thinking about the prospect of crushing on/developing feelings/falling in love in general: Yes, you are right, I am...

*sigh* Oh dear, I am crushing hard on my Literary Studies professor. I don't know where this comes from all of a sudden, but seeing her again today after the Christmas break wasn't particularly helpful in a way :rolleyes: I am starting to feel physically drawn to her and I miss her presence...

Goody and possible future relationships I know, that's why I need a way to handle this. A big part of the solution will be getting used to it, I guess. Thanks, as far as I am able to speak of experience here, I am tempted to agree with you on this one :D _______________________ As I had...

How I love the one liners: your hair color can kill ,, you know this ?! Hm ... I hope there haven't been casualties up to now that I need to worry about :rolleyes: