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My two cents I feel for you... I have my three already, and would love to one day be a foster parent (all my kids friends tend to refer to me as their second mum :D at one point it was a running joke that I was the neighbourhood's mum), I would also have more bioligical children although it...

yes I did - just not as bluntly... he said that what triggered the long discussion was when I had said to him that the only thing stopping him from writing T for new years (in response to a 'maybe I would like to respond too' when we were discussing our different views on why or why not either...

Hmm, so feeling confused all over again... T sent me a very short and perfunctory safe travels and merry xmas email... after his very to the point email about not being friends... I responded to it with a thanks for the thought, merry xmas etc...a shorter than normal, to the point response...

Way to go, Carl! Mine is 2 years and counting, also in two separate countries and 16-hour time difference. It's hard, but if you're committed to communication and selfless, it is worth it.

That's why they call it the blues - Elton John

Well said, SourGirl. :D

I am unsure how my children would react (if I ever got something happening :p). My eldest would likely not take it well, my youngest would probably think it awesome, confusing but awesome (more presents, you see... no seriously, more attention :p), and the middle would likely be confused but...

LOL - we are a confusing bunch to be sure... try doing a tag search on the terms 'triad' and 'v' or 'vee'... just to have a look through the differences for a starter. personally I am not sure I would want to be involved or have both partners involved when being intimate - thats a pretty...

This will be an interesting topic. :D I have three children. My eldest will graduate high school next year. The youngest is still in primary. I did not plan to have any kids, except for the middle one. The other two were definitely unplanned. Despite everything my children have been put...

I should also say that that particular issue is a huge one for me personally... In my previous marriage... my ex wanted me to be the perfect everything - kinda like a trophy wife type thing. If I failed... I would be punished... and I always failed at something... I was always pushed 'back into...

Hey TP - Thanks. I hear you loud and clear, I don't know if I have the strength to do that... I will certainly be thinking long and hard about it. T has removed his Facebook and MSN Pictures again anyway. I was clear in the letter they were having an effect on me... I have a lot of thinking...

Hey there TP :D Please do keep posting - your story is important to many of us out here... knowing that it is possible and that someone out there is doing it, living it breathing it... It's good to know there are more than just Redpepper and Mono's grouping that are succeeding... your minutiae...

LOL - my fiance and I have an ongoing Irish accent game (we both are quite okay at mimicing the accent and have a great time roleplaying with it - although I sometimes slip into scots and we go on with that...) I should probably mention he has an irish background, and I have a scots ancestry so...

LOL - Somegeezer, the Canadians looooove the Aussie accent :D I am constantly being complimented and having people ask me to talk... a couple of times my fiance passed his phone around so his buddies could hear me and I could hear them in the background (and directly) going "oh wow, yeah like...

Welcome :D

@SourGirl, I did not insert words into your response that aren't there. Perhaps your own definition of romantic love could be defined. The OP was talking about physical intimacy. You mentioned sex in your response to RP, and then followed it by stating to the OP that if her definition of a...

Wanting or needing sex does not define romantic love. I can cuddle and make out with my fiance and not want to have sex at all. I just want that special intimacy. People can have sex with no love whatsoever being in the equation. It seems odd that you would use sex in a definition of romantic...

Thanks SS That is very much likely what K is feeling/thinking. we have discussed it to a certain extent - and I know he can't feel what i feel and so can't have the same 'knowing' that I do of how I would respond... but to me I know he trusts me - but at the same time - he doesn't. The other...

There was something else K said that has been niggling away at me - and I would like to ask for opinions or thoughts on how to view this... Basically he said that my continuing to push at getting a response that will satisfy me would be, in his opinion, me pushing for the relationship... that...

Thanks WhatamIdoing... Its all hurting pretty bad right now... hugs truly appreciated