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Yeah, I think you both have valid perspectives. If he doesn't have a clue as to what my expectations are or doesn't realize the affect a behavior or lack there of is having on me, then we aren't communicating our needs(I am not perhaps). As intelligent as he thinks he is, the man does not have...

I know I am so bad about editing. I get all these feelings out and then I regret something, or think well that was a bit too much info, and I edit. But yes, the gist of the post is that I am truly struggling with expectations- I have them and some are probably a bit too high. However, I think I...

Nice! I need a boyfriend/girlfriend that can cook like you!LOL! ___________________________________________________ Played with my princess puppy!:)

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Love Language today Test Results: Percent Language Score 37% Words of Affirmation 11 23% Quality Time 7 7% Receiving Gifts 2 3% Acts of Service 1 30% Physical Touch 9

is it me? UGH!!!!!! It must be me! I am an idiot!

Woot!

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Food for thought LR. I often say, can we not just agree to disagree? But some people can't let things go at that, and that is usually when I become obstinate. BUT YOU ARE SO RIGHT! I have X amount of time, and letting resentment build because of having to drop things and rearrange my schedule to...

Hahahahahahaha on the loopiness! Bunches of nurses in my family, so I totally get your "do and be there" kind of personality. I love it! So best of luck on the road to recovery for both you and II. Oh and the kiddoes!

Yep! You are such a sweetie! I guess it is just natural to want to project our own ideals of what is appropriate. Don't worry so much. He is a happy camper...well sort of, as happy as one can be with a busted ankle!;)

Made a dinner date with my best friends!:)

I agree here RP. Derbs maybe she is just letting you do your thing and not wanting to intrude. Does II want her there? If so, maybe someone should make a call. I mean it may just be a case of not knowing what he wants or needs, or what you are comfortable with. Then again it may not be her...

These are all awesome things Bitterborn. You are in a really good place emotionally it seems, and very accepting. I am a bit envious. How long have you been in a poly situation? The bolded sentence I get. I have similar worries. And I am the poly one!;) Mattressmate- I so get this!!!! Thanks...

Good on ya LR! Sounds like a productive time for you. Why do we do this? Just stop talking! I had the same kind of two days. Why can I not master the concept in a consistent way? I am really trying this time to not ignore a problem by just giving in and saying "Okay, whatever you want." But at...

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Weak, weak, weak I caved. 4 weeks is all I could hold out. :o Anyway busy week with the kids...prom and graduation! Yikes time flies by! I cannot believe I am the mother of adults! Hubs and I are planning a trip at the end of June. Thank God. I need a break. And will definitely need one by...

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The weekend Good weekend overall. A few glitches. Surprise, surprise some bickering after a couple of misunderstandings. But overall a solid first step to recovery. It is very strange to be in a shared existence and not interfere when you think something is not right. To kind of stifle an...