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I agree with NK, although I see your pov, Danny. I've never really enjoyed the "interview" type getting-to-know-you conversations. I'd much rather engage in the chill-out, hang-out, have fun meet-and-greets.

Hello possum, I'm sorry for your pain. It's not hard to see how much you're hurting, and I am truly sorry. I hope that in time you will come to see that the experience you've described is not polyamory at all. Polyamory is based in love, concern and respect for all the people concerned in...

I'm so sorry Bob took it hard, and that he was hurt. And I'm sorry too that you are hurting. You did the right thing, and you've shown yourself to be a woman of character and integrity. You deserve to be proud of yourself for that. But that doesn't lessen the pain of the loss. I know. And my...

You have already been more than hospitable, and you are being taken advantage of. In my household, the Pioneer Rule is always in effect: if you don't work, you don't eat. Seriously. There is always some way to contribute. In your op you say this person (or is it more than one?) was originally...

Sounds like the beginning of a plan. Good for you, Erin! I'll bet you'll be happy and healthy and whole before you know it!

Did you say FOURTEEN MONTHS? Geesh! I was thinking I could refrain myself from PDA's for maybe a week, two max. Then revisit the issue. Fourteen months? With little or no forward motion? Good heavens! No wonder you're at the end of your rope! Of course not, Beloved. And I hope you know I'm just...

Yep. What Penny said. :)

*more big hugs* I can certainly understand your frustration with the situation. Loving them both means demonstrating love to both of them, right? Perfectly natural. But, given everything that's going on with Maca right now, and all the unresolved issues he's trying to work through, I can also...

Aww HELL No, that's not funny. :mad: Is she delusional? Time to schedule a doctor's appointment.

Sorry. What a drag. Sounds like your good thing is over. It looks like it's time for a serious dose of responsibility and enlightened self-interest on your part. First things first: Maybe you can have a frank discussion with the young guy and have a LOOK at his recent std test results...

Don't hold back, Mags; tell us what you really think. ;)

Yeah, we rock. ;):cool: Nope. Can't help you there. But s/he would make a fortune, judging by the numbers of polypeeps posting here looking for info on how to meet people. Good luck in your search.

Okay. There is just so much to say about this situation, I don't even know where to begin. So I'll just throw out some thoughts. First off, please please please do not bring a child into this situation. If you and your husband decide to work all these huge issues out and work together to create...

From what you've written, it looks to me like it's time for some direct and open communication with your Morgan. Most of the issues are already on the table. She knows you are polyamorous, and always have been, since the beginning of your relationship. You know she is not, or at least that she...

Now THAT sounds like a good time! :)

One size does not fit all, and your mileage may vary. Any configuration can work, and any configuration can fail. What works for my tribe may not work for y'all. The three of you need to find what will work for your particular situation. This may mean some experimentation, some trial-and-error...

Tiana, Hi! There you are! I've been thinking and praying for you for months, wondering what how you were, how your situation was developing, looking for updates on the other thread you started. How could I have been missing your blog all this time? It looks like you're continuing to find...

Excellent idea, NK.

Hi. Welcome. You might be interested in a discussion of safer-sex practices. A search of the forum should turn it up quickly.

It is not. I've never been a mother, but I am a natural born worrier. Always have been, since a tiny child. I have found a cure though. Works like magic for me. :cool: :) I don't want to hijack this thread, so Mohegan (or whoever) if you're interested in how I learned to slay the worry monster...