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this is a really intresting question Poly is hard work, so is most relationships but poly is hard work in a diffrent way, however this is my opinion and this is ONLY my opinion this could be taken the wrong way and i normally don't say this but i think maybe my point of view might be useful in...

UPDATE I have really thought about this over the last few days and i have decided that it is not unreasonable for me to feel jelous, as long as i don't let the emtion rule me then i can feel it aknowladge it and hopefully learn from it, i did talk to him and he isn't wanting to start another...

Does the feeling match the actuality? Is he providing you with attention? If yes, then it follows that he feels you are worthy. yes he most def prodies me with more than enough attention. :) Many of our "unconscious" thoughts are really conditioned thoughts. the not worthy is a conditioned...

Well-I guess the question is WHY do you think you can't handle it? What about him being intimate with someone he has already established a relationship with at some point scares you? it wasn't an already established relationship, it was an affair she had a partner and he didn't know... when...

Ok-so even though we have a well established relationship-we are new to being officially boyfriend/girlfriend. I guess if he was planning to get a girlfriend I would want to discuss some details because we are really at a stage where we treasure every moment we GET to have and his time is VERY...

yes def would be really intresting :) to talk to everyone live.

i am wondering waht the end point for you is on this question? Jools

i can ask the question but i just dont' know how to go about answering it because i have so many feelings that are so intense i can't think logically at all, Jools

He has agreed that introducing new people would be bad for us just now. Specifying an end date seems difficult because im not sure how long it will take for our relationship to establish to a level that we both feel secure enough, i am having difficulty figuring out where my inner turmoil...

MONO u wrote exactly what i wanted to ask, i just couldn't find the words thankyou :) Jools

I do LARP live action roleplay at the moment i play whitewolf, old world vampire, it is how i met most of my partners :) i love roleplay. Do you play anything Mono? Jools

is there any songs that make you think of the people you love/are in a relationship with? do you have special song that reminds you off all ur partners? or just diffrent songs for each, im just being nosey and looking for some good music :) Jools

establishing new relationships. UPDATE Do you think it is fair to take the time to establish a new relationship before bringing in any new people? If so how long do you think is a fair amount of time? I am feeling insecure, and a little jelous in my new relationship. Its not that he is dating...

this is really intresting for me in perspective of my relationships because i have montianboy ESFP R - ESFP me - INFP M - INFP Considering there are 16 types this is very cool :) Jools

http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp

(((((((hugs))))))))) so sorry u had a breakup i can relate when i broke up with M i wanted to hate all men, and i couldn't because i still had montianboy and he was so lovley and supportive i hope you can talk about it soon it might help Love Jools

im switch :) bi poly switch.. aka very felxiable in many ways.

i just read the entire topic seems there are lots of INFP ENFPs, and from what i heard INFPs are kind of rare, so i wonder if we are more likley to be poly :)

Bella is caught up in new relationship energy. First time trying poly. I'm not surprised that she is overwhelmed by it. Remember how it felt when you first got together with her, you wanted to spend all your free time with each other? It hurts to be apart, hormones are going wild. This part...

i am INFP R is ENFP M is INFP im not sure what montianboy is :) Jools