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Yes, that is confusing to me, too, you calling it a 'group' situation, but your husband only met this couple after you got involved with them, and even then he's been gone the rest of the year, so far. It doesn't seem like a group situation. It seems like you have a FWB with Isaac, and Hanna is...

I stand by everything I wrote in the whole thread....I know what I said and don't need to use the search function for it.

I would find the Krusha of my Poly fantasy harsh too...but it doesn't mean we speak with a forked tongue. Well it doesn't so... yeah. Do you know how a Menage is usually defined? It isn't really what most people think. Regardless, one book does not a good argument make Northome.

Actually I said they rarely work..once.

Ha! Who are these "many" people? Again, we are talking of unicorn hunters, not triads, I personally think triads don't work for long, but that is a separate issue (that did not involve unicorn hunting, btw).

My opinions are my own too. I can't believe he is still going on about everyone (except him) being Franklin Veaux sock puppets.

It's less that it isn't the status quo and more that it isn't the status quo for a really good reason. It is not very sustainable.

No it doesn't, we have had plenty of other types of polyamorous configurations fail, and some open couples fail, and some monogamous types leave their partners. It is just the reasons for the failing of unicorn relationships are so consistent, very much unlike all the other relationships. If...

Of course they do, why wouldn't they? It is what attracts them, and surely they are allowed to look for whatever they want, because they know what works best for their relationship... And of course, they don't mind waiting until their perfect girl comes along.

That's not to say I have anything against middle-aged people without kids, btw, it is just the patronising, sex-object way the profile was written that gets my goat.

My favourite* one recently, was "Looking for a sweet girl who is tender hearted," younger than them, and specifically said, she need not even BE bisexual, as long as she is "ready and willing to be a full part of our sex lives. This is mostly directed to the man so there is no need to be bi at...

To elaborate on that, I don't think DADT can work in a relationship form of polyamory (if we define polyamory as featuring emotion based outside relationships) for the reasons already mentioned. But as a form of non-monogamy I don't see the problem, especially if one or both don't live together...

Like Magdlyn, I made a disastrous mistake also. I am not really able to talk about it still, as it is too painful (really dedicated people can easily find out). But I would never, ever want anyone to go through what I went through. I wish people wouldn't cling to this fantasy, I really do...

Of course, I tend to write from the single woman's view, because that is what I am. But I do acknowledge that sometimes things can go bad for a member of the married couple, also. Wasn't there a bloke here the other day whose wife moved in their partner without telling him and he feels totally...

People will criticise a woman for her shallowness just as much as unicorn hunters, maybe even worse. I recall a thread on a kinky forum when a flame war occurred after a woman said she had no desire for a short dom... Drama!!!!! Imagine a thread starter like: "I'm single, but I only want a rich...

And the terminology they use just bugs me, it all seems so very... objectifying. "Looking for our third/our girl/our special Unicorn," "To share/enjoy/add to our relationship/marriage." Sometimes it is cringeworthy. At least it is to me. And then I have to stand back and realise... wait...

That isn't what the OP is looking for, they are looking to meet a woman they can both date with the rule that there will only be threesome sex at first until everyone is "comfortable". Wow?? Really? :eek: They aren't. The penis thing was a for example and there have been plenty of...

IME, threesome sex can be more stressful and the cause of insecurity in early days than later days, it is the wrong way around if it is comfort you want to encourage. That threesome only (for now) rule (for that IS a rule that the other woman doesn't have a hand in making) is there to prevent a...

I think you'll find that is the way it is commonly used, it is not S-Cat's definition. What she IS emphasising is why it has such a negative connotation. Very often "successful" Unicorn Hunters come on here and mock it but often they are five minutes into their NRE saturation, I do believe time...

Oh wow, bet that was unexpected? Isn't it great that it all turned out right in the end?