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    when poly goes weird

    communication Hey Derbylicious I agree with you that ideally, R and I would be able to communicate... but unfortunately, she has a habit of treating me so badly, calling me derogatory names, making a scene in front of other people, that I chose not to talk with her. It is better for little...
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    Coming out

    I understand exactly what you are saying, ChloeJane. I too am a LGBTQ activist. But when the opportunity to bring up polyamory arises in the meetings I attend or participate in, my lips seem to stick shut. I am openly bisexual, but coming out as poly would be questioning one of the most...
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    How many poly ppl tell their family?

    My bf came out to his parents and his family and they gave him a lot of shit. Did not go well. I haven't told my family. They are horrified enough that I'm dating a man who's going through a divorce... don't even know what they'd say if they knew we were poly. They currently have told me...
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    Newbies need triad help

    Poly in Ontario Hey Megan, Like you, my bf and I had the delusional idea that we could meet a girl who'd be into both of us too, so we could have a triad. That lasted for a couple months, til it didn't seem realistic anymore. Then we decided we'd be ok with an MF couple or a FF couple. (He's...
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    when poly goes weird

    black unicorn, you are so right. That sums up my feelings exactly about the whole thing. I knew nostalgia sex happens, and absolutely for T, it was affirming that he needed to leave the relationship. But for R, it only gave her hope that things could be repaired. So thankfully, he did end...
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    when poly goes weird

    continued... Anyway, this new year a couple of things came out I was none too pleased about with T. First off, he hadnt cut off his sexual relationship with R. after filing for divorce with her as I was under the impression. I was aghast at this as they are truly terrible for each other...
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    when poly goes weird

    I'm relatively new here but reading these posts have helped me to pluck up my courage and join the conversation. I'm strangely glad to hear my problems and situation arent so unique. So, the past year of my life in a nutshell... I've known a mf couple for a long time, but not well. Then, I...
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    Is a child's blood thicker than water?

    Hey, I just wanted to say, I feel you on the family-freaking-out thing. It's also my deepest concern. My boyfriend's mom threw a shit fit when he told her the truth. She tried to sue for custody of his daughter... and lost. You see, the nice thing about the law is that it isn't tied to...
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    The bloggy begins.

    yeah they do. It's funny cuz they arent very well advertised on campus and dont seem to do very much! I'm trying to get involved in more communitybLGBTQ stuff and thats making me really happy. :)
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    The bloggy begins.

    So yeah, this isn't really a straight forward story so much as it is a musing that tells my story inside its musings, so bare with me please. :D I will update it to tell more of our story. Basic facts to know as you read this: Me: a 28 year old bisexual female in a relationship with a 28...
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    BC Reference Case on Polygamy and Group Marriages

    relief I have to say, it's such a relief to hear this explained. I was really upset when I first read it because of how very negative it is regarding multiple partner relationships. For example, " As for polyamory, only vague definitions have been offered as to what the term means, and...
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