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You say "douchenozzle" like it's a bad thing . . .:rolleyes:

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Sorry to hear you're sick. Hope you're better ASAP. As for getting time for yourself, it sounds to me like you mainly need to decide what you really want and just ask for it.

I agree.

In the classic style of AA meetings everywhere: Hi, Karen. :)

Hear, hear.

I'll say they have! WOW, what a difference a year can make.

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:( Sorry to hear about your husband's troubles. The hard truth is that people make time for the things that are important to them. Sadly, it's likely that your metamour is losing interest in the relationship with your husband. Too busy to communicate even for a moment, once a day? I doubt it...

Hi there Red, I've been catching up on some of what I've missed here on your blog. Boy, it sure sounds like you're going through some STUFF! Good and not-so-great. There are a couple of things I wanted to comment on: Now THIS, Sister Woman, is something that I know a little something about...

Very wise move. Taking a little time to just breathe and process all this new information may be just what your husband needs to see that that you are still you, that nothing is fundamentally changed between the two of you, and that opening himself up to the new possibilities you are presenting...

Hi broncofan, and welcome to the forum. I agree with the other respondents: kudos on your approach thus far. It may feel like you're on shaky ground, but you're coming from a place of honesty and integrity. Way to go. At this point no one can predict the outcome, but you're moving in the...

Hi, enoki. Welcome to the forum. I know you asked the internet for a reply; I hope you don't mind if it's me instead. It sounds to me like you're at the boiling point over some disrespect you feel has come from your husband's girlfriend, and are now feeling pressured to put it behind you. If...

:D Happy Birthday, BrotherMan! May your day be filled with joy, peace and everything that's best in life. And may all the days to come, too! :D

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So, MTmozat, what happened? Did you have the chat?

Yowie. I probably would've melted down into a quivering heap (after the crisis was past, of course).

This might be a good opportunity for you and your parental units to revisit the "my roof, my rules" issue. You're an adult now. Surely the rules are different now than when you were say, fourteen? Open a dialogue with your parentals to discuss and negotiate what the rules are now. It could be a...

I second what Ari said. Good call, Ari. :)

That IS a good friend. When someone cares enough about me to tell me a hard truth, they get gold stars in my book, even if what they tell me is embarrassing, gross or weird.