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Yes. A dear friend of mine is in a MFM Vee where she divides her time in a similar manner. Not exactly the same because of scheduling and distance, and I'm not comfortable going into much detail because it's their story to tell, but there are definite similarities.

Especially when that behaviour has worked for them in the past.

Excellent point, NYC. Redbull, the LAST thing you want is to find out in the weeks and months to come that this creepy guy gave you "the gift that keeps on giving."

From your lips to God's ears, SisterWoman. I stand in agreement with you.

Great idea, LR. I'm glad you thought of it, a thread to record milestones and whatnot. Great idea. And, not that I think my opinion matters much, but O my dear! Being "just LR" is plenty and then some. You are Loving Radiance.

Hi, Cat. Welcome to the forum. I totally agree with what Derby, Ari and II have posted. One other thing I want to point out: What? How did the arrangement go from "no such thing" to "you are secondary" without your knowledge, consent and input? Either something happened in your SO's...

Ooh, I love a group hug! *snuggles in*

There is a wealth of information on this topic already on this forum. Try a search for V relationships.

If it were me, I'd at least open the lines of communication with him on this topic. It looks like there is potential for benefit and growth for all parties.

Big hugs for all of you, LR. I'm so sorry for all that y'all are going through. :( I wish I had some words of wisdom or some magic panacea to share. I don't. But I am sending healing love your way. For all of you. Be strong, SisterWoman. Better days are coming.

I am a sincere Christian, and so I can only say this from my own Christian perspective. If Lobster is an earnest follower of Christ, he should follow CHRIST where Christ leads. Not where the Church leads, or religious tradition, or his family, or his friends, or you or anyone else. Christ alone...

Good for you, proud mama. And good for your daughter, to be open enough to learn about an idea many conservative Christians would shun as anathema. One good book that explores the concept of multiple loves from a scriptural Christian viewpoint is Divine Sex: Liberating Sex from Religious...

I can see a number of miscommunications going on here. I'll address the one that's easy to fix. The reference to "fucking around" is in Autumnal Tone's signature, and not a specific reference to this discussion. It appears as part of all of his posts. As for the other areas you on which were...

Howdy, neighbors! There used to be an active poly group in Austin. I/we live too far out to make it in often enough, but they used to have monthly meet & greets, movie nights, that sort of thing. Have a look in Yahoo groups. And there are a couple of ads in the personals section of this forum...

I am sending much love to all of you. I hope you're feeling it, because i am sending it. Love. Peace. Healing.

She should: change the locks notify the police that she is evicting her abusive former lover inform her former partner that the locks have been changed inform him that he will have to arrange a time that is convenient for her to pick up the remainder of his things, and that he must pick up...

Thanks for sharing the link to her blog, red. After reading it, I believe this young woman is going to make it. Her eyes are open and she's looking for the path out of that valley. You've given her good information and support, and she's getting support and help from other sources too. Excellent...

Congrats!:)

And I would like to apologize for my part of the misunderstanding, dinged. I hope it won't discourage you from being part of the community here. As you can see, we care about each other, and stick up for each other. Peace, brotherman.

It is my priviledge and my duty to help others find their way out of this valley, in honor of the wise and wonderful people who pointed the way out to me when I was walking through it. Oh, yeah? Well a knee to the crotch might speak in a voice he can hear! Only "yes" means yes! Where I live...