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Sometimes we just need to bounce ideas off other people. Glad we could help. Good luck to you, John, as you work through this.

This is my cultural heritage, as well. And I have come to take great delight in smacking my "doctrinally enslaved" relatives upside the head with Scripture, such as: JESUS said: "the whole of the Law shall be this: Love the Lord with all thy heart, all the mind, and all thy strength, and love...

Hi John. You don't know me and I don't know you, but I'm going to tell you what I would tell my dearest, closest friend if he came to me with this issue. Telling your wife you have romantic and sexual feelings for her sister has the potential to DESTROY YOUR LIFE, HER LIFE, and HER SISTER'S...

There is a wide variety of possibilities when it comes to consensual nonmonogamy. A wealth of valuable information is available through this forum. New members are encouraged to look through what's already here. Chances are good that your question has already been answered. For instance, in...

This is wisdom, I think.

Hi, Nakedone. Welcome to the forum. Interesting that a new member is going to help us all organize our thinking on this "outrageous" topic. Really? I'm trying not to be offensive here, but your post has really triggered me, in that it seems to assume that you possess superior knowledge and...

I'm always watching my sugar intake, so it's always diet for me, when possible. ;)

Q1: Next time you're in the video store and she's on the job, just be friendly and approachable. Along the lines of "How are you today? Some weather, eh?" If she wants to take the conversation in a different direction, you've opened the door. If she doesn't . . . well, she is on the job, after...

Hello, Sapphire. Welcome. :)

Trust what she DOES. People can say anything, but ACTIONS reveal the heart. If you choose to continue your romantic involvement with your ex, be forewarned. She has already demonstrated the capacity to hurt you badly, in a disrespectful and cavalier manner. And you have allowed that hurtful...

Wow, Derby, that sounds like a picture-PERFECT Christmas! I'm glad for y'all. If Dr. Pepper is available where y'all live, try it hot with lemon and rum. Easy, fun, and yummy! Just don't add TOO much rum, or you'll have more cough syrup! :-P Plus, you can have sugar-free on hand for the folks...

Hi Tess. Sorry to hear y'all have hit a rough patch. All the best as you find your way through it.

The Best of Christmas

*snap* :cool:

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I'm with you on this point, Derby. Confidentiality and discretion are issues Fidelio and I take very much to heart, and even so we faced some pretty big challenges working out clear boundaries around who/what/how to share or protect information.

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The Mentalist I just watched an episode of The Mentalist where the murder victim was in an open marriage. They didn't use the word polyamory, but the victim had a husband and a boyfriend, and everything was aboveboard. I was pleased to see that when the revelation of the poly relationship was...

First: I am so sorry for your pain. :( As for advice, I would urge you to observe and consider his ACTIONS carefully. People can say anything, but actions reveal the heart.

Okay, wow. Let the shit-storm begin . . . Before any more of the polypeeps jump on Somegeezer like a chicken on a June bug in defense of beautiful bodies of every size, I would like to point out that according to his profile, this "geezer" is 18. I know when I was 18 I bought a lot of the...