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That sounds fascinating! I wish I could have been there. I probably would have wanted to check out every single book. And OF COURSE you were by far the most popular book! Who in their right mind would not want to "check you out"? ;)

What NK said. One thing you may wish to consider: we teach people how to treat us. For whatever reason, you have taught Rage her behavior toward you is acceptable, or at least that you will accept it. If it is no longer acceptable to you, teach her that. It sounds to me like you, Marius and...

"Don't stick your dick in crazy." That is deep wisdom, BrotherMan, a pearl of great price. Seriously, though, I'm glad you lived to tell the tale. Sounds like you gained some valuable lessons; sorry you had to enroll in the School of Hard Knocks to get them. From your description, your ex-gf...

And you want her in your life . . . why?:confused:

For me it's not so much about where the bad news gets delivered, it's about how. I prefer my bad news (of whatever variety) straight up with a chaser of honesty and compassion.

I have not been following the whole situation, but from your description of it, I will say nope, no sir, this is definitely not polyamory. She is not demonstrating nearly enough love, respect and consideration for herself or for you. Now I'll throw down some thoughts I think apply. When...

Oh my God! :D That is so totally cool! Go, Red! :D Details, please! Lots and lots of details! So excited for you! *does the happy excited dance* Yeah! What happened with that? :)

How did it go, jokutus?

Hi suesuekp. Welcome to the forum. My $.02: Competing with her for our husband's time and attention has not worked for you. The competition continues to end in a tie. Time to try something else. Since fighting each other has failed repeatedly, why not try working together? It looks to me like...

Hi, nativeprincess35, Welcome to the forum. :)

;) Grrrrrrrr . . . Oh, yeah, baby! How does one girl get this lucky? :)

How did the burlesque show go? Was it everything you hoped it would be?

I could not agree with this point more, redpepper, except that I think that it is possible to heal from these issues. At least I hope it is and, for myself, I'm working toward that end.

Well, alrighty then!:cool: I was starting to think my crush was totally unrequited. ;)

*hugs* Hang in there, SisterWoman. Don't forget to breathe. You're crocheting a bedspread? *tips hat* Wow. I crochet, but I've never undertaken a BEDSPREAD. I tend to make smaller things, baskets and snowflakes and whatnot. I made a darling pair of cafe curtains once. Took me all winter! If I...

You say she is cheating. Those who cheat with you will also cheat on you. Also, the relationship you have now is not polyamorous, since poly is rooted in honesty, integrity, and respect for everyone involved. Neither she nor you are demonstrating much respect and concern for her OSO. At the...

The cornerstones of polyamory are honesty, integrity, and concern for everyone involved in a relationship. This is not the path you're walking. By jumping directly from the theoretical possibility of polyamory as a beneficial change in your marriage to a fait accompli covert sexual...

Hear, hear!

:( So sorry for your pain. All of you. It's torture, I know. I wish I had advice, or resources, or something tangible to offer. I don't. But I am praying for you all, for the best possible outcome for all of you, especially your kids. (I don't know if you believe in the power of prayer, and I...

Nice. Sometimes making your needs and wishes known really is all it takes. Good for all of you. :)