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Welcome! I am from California too but I currently live in North Carolina :)

I think that boyfriend #2 of six months Wasn't quite mature enough to allow someone else to be your primary and it was selfish of him to put you in a position to choose (not ultimately) between the two of them when it came to primary status at least. If you were meant to be together he will come...

Welcome! Vent all you need, we are here to listen and give our two sense! :p

Welcome! I am so happy for you and your wife. You sound like you really love and respect her and I think it's great that you are open to allowing her to build a life with someone else with you still by her side. It really helps to have a supportive partner who wants nothing less than happiness...

I can relate to the ownership thing. Over the years I have become less and less of a jealous person until it vanished completely. There can be so much unnecessary drama in a monogamous relationship and it can be hard on us emotionally. This way, everyone is happy, and if they aren't then they...

Welcome! In time I am sure you will open up more to the idea of a complete love triad and all of you (including your kids) will be a great big happy family :)

Welcome! Sounds like you have a lot of amazing ladies in your life! I am happy for you :)

I would never say to someone that there is no God because I simply can't prove that there isn't one. As an Atheist I don't believe there is a God or higher power, but just because I personally don't believe it doesn't make it true. I always keep an open mind and when someone asks "is there a...

Thanks everyone! I am fortunate to have him as my primary and I can't wait to build my life around him! He is so selfless. :)

Welcome David!

Welcome! :D

I have considered myself to be polyamorous for a little while now. My Fiance always knew I wanted an open relationship but we have been talking a lot lately about my desire to live a polyamorous lifestyle and he fully supports me in it. He said he is not sure he wants to be poly but if it...

Hello and welcome!:D

That sounds like polyamory to me! I think you are feeling confused because of the fact that this woman is attracting you more than you had originally planned. You are confused because for most of your life you have identified as bisexual and all of your man urges have diminished since you met...

I am so happy for you!:D

Well said Ron, I completely agree with everything you said in this post. That is exactly how I see things and my idea of what relationships should be like. :D

First of all Welcome! I am sorry to hear about your marital hardships. It sounds to me like you really love him regardless of all he is putting you through, also even though he has told you he loves you but is no longer in love with you, he still in fact is in love with you, otherwise, what has...

Welcome! :D

Hello! Sounds like you already have quite the family. I look forward to seeing more posts from you in the future!

Hello and welcome! I am happy to hear about your self-defining journey, glad we can all be apart of it. I am new to the lifestyle as well so please, if you have any questions or just need a friend to talk to, message me anytime!