Gday everyone from down under

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Maloo64

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Gday everyone

I am new to this forum and to this life style , I am here to learn more and hopefully experience it as well. My beautiful wife has found a great male friend of ours which she has fallen in love with and I am all for it, her happiness means the world to me and he is a great guy. Like I said before I am new and want to learn as I can be there when needed and also know when to allow them time.
Any tips or advise you can forward to me would be great.
I am planning on be a regular member on this site so I hope make a lot of life friends along the way.

Thanks from down under :)
 
Greetings Maloo64,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I'm sure you'll make lots of friends here as you explore our site and field your thoughts, questions, etc.

Re: tips or advice ... make productive communication your new religion. Learn as much about it as you can. On this site you can do a tag search for "communication" which'll help point you in the right direction.

There's some really good books about polyamory you might want to read as well. In particular:

  • "Opening Up: a guide to creating and sustaining open relationships," by Tristan Taormino.
  • "More than Two: a practical guide to ethical polyamory," by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert.
Other than that, we'll just work stuff out as we go along. Glad you could join us!
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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Welcome aboard!
 
Welcome!

I am so happy for you and your wife. You sound like you really love and respect her and I think it's great that you are open to allowing her to build a life with someone else with you still by her side. It really helps to have a supportive partner who wants nothing less than happiness for you, even if they have to make a few little sacrifices of their own.

Everyone on this site is helpful and supportive so feel free to ask anything you need!:D
 
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