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After a year with 2 partners, I realize what an emotional toll poly has taken on me, and that I don't feel innately poly. Yes, there are huge rewards to polyamory, but they don't seem to outweigh the emotional turmoil my partners and I go through. My boyfriend Patrick was poly when I met him and...

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Where to go to find a poly friendly counselor in NJ? hard to come by?

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Communication vs. Sharing too much I know that communication is super important on all aspects. When Nell decided she wanted some space from my OSO, Patrick, I told him so and the reasons why. Patrick got upset because he wishes he never knew why, because now he feels like he has to pretend...

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Happy birthday Breathesgirl!

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Thank you for sharing, Mono. Some days I find I am feeling far more monogamous than poly. I kind of cross over and it's a blurry line for me. Your story really resonated with me.

omg this is true!

Im Glow. Im in NJ too! Welcome =D

Welcome Woodsprite, its great to have you. I hope you find what you are looking for!;)

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Wow THis is REALLY helpful. I didnt realize what a world of difference it makes to distinct these rules from boundries and compromises. Do you mind if I email this post to P and N? or I can just summarize... that works fine as well !

I think maybe a temp boundry is a nice idea. its good to see things in shades of grey

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I am wondering, if it is a reasonable boundary to request that a partner does not have causal sex prior to a date or two. The reason I ask this is because I know some see sex as a starting point in a relationship, or discover the connection they have with someone because of casual sex. I am not...