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You make some really nice points. I think maybe labeling just isn't for me as I can clearly put myself under any label. I'd like to one day to experience a romantic relationship with a woman, and a romantic relationship with more than one person, but I am not certain that either of those two...

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Oh, and thank you everyone.

You guys are totally right. I figured it doesn't really matter. But, in a way, it would be nice to be able to identify as either mono or poly. It must seem like I am very big on labeling, by the sound of my posts. I'm not really. I'm just struggling to understand something new and where I fit...

I think the amour part of poly is what makes polyamory different from just 'fucking around'.

So so so true. Thanks for the insight. I don't view slut as negative, by any means. It is just something that I have never experienced myself. I don't think it's to be avoided, exactly, but from a personal standpoint, for example, going out to meet with a group of people I don't know is kind...

Sorry to bewilder you, I didn't mean to attack or hurt anyone. My boyfriend told me to buy The Ethical Slut, and I did, and found it to be a good read. I would love to read it again, but I let someone borrow it and they never returned it. That said, while it gave me a lot of insight at the...

hey thanks. I read it online, on some website explaining poly "lingo" and there was a term for new polys who read everything lol. I was thinking oh shit, that could be me...but hey, I am into a boy who considereds polyamory to be an important value to him so I think its right that i should do my...

I really don't know one way or another. I don't have a gut feeling that tells me that I am poly, or that I am mono, for that matter. Likewise, I am attracted to both males and females. I have never had any sexual relations with females, but am open to doing so. What does this make me? Does...

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I think you are right. I am not worried that it's not poly. I don't think there is anything wrong with what I did, being that I was safe and communicative, and my bf was okay with it. I still don't think casual sex is the same as being poly. it makes me wonder if my bf thinks of causal sex as a...

mono, I am not trying to force myself to become poly or anything, I just dont feel strongly poly or mono, so I guess im soaking up as much info as I can and seeing what works for out me. :o

My bf who is poly is always trying to get me to meet other people...something I am open to doing but isnt instinctual for me (I have social anxiety which I think is one large cause of this...I have trouble just meeting people.) I explained to him that many people have mono poly relationships...

Someone once told me to stop feeling lost, stop trying to find myself...that when I am ready, I will create myself, I will choose what and who I am...nobody can do that for me.

For the first time, I had sex with someone I am not dating. I told him before we did anything that I would have to tell P about this, and he said okay. I told P, and while I was a little nervous, P said, "Congrats, hunny! Isn't it nice being poly?" and the whole time I'm thinking what I just did...

Hooping (im just learning but its sooo much fun) Spinning Poi and Fire Poi Writing/Reading Poetry Photoshoping piccies Discovering New Music Playing Dressup =)

I love making new facebook friends.

woah this thread has grown! lady

Black Box Republic is a new social networking/dating site created by burners for burners and its completely sex positive. I'm not a member yet because you have to pay for membership, but my bf is. I think its really new so it might not be top notch just yet, but it seems pretty promising!

I just heard of this new website called Black Box Republic. It's a completely sex-positive networking site. However, it costs $$ to be a member, so I am not. (But my bf is.)