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    Which way to turn?

    I haven't posted in a long while, but decided to come out of my cocoon for this. I can so relate to the following This is what is so confusing to me - how do you trust someone who has lied and cheated so many times before? How do you continue to be in a relationship with someone who became so...
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    Grey's Anatomy?

    I think he does love Callie. However, I don't think he is in love with her per sei. But yes I do see the overtones. I thought it was a good episode.
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    Adoption/biological

    I thought more about this subject. Interestingly, enough there are days we have quiet days at home due to my condition. However, we have the same thing happen for my daughter's health issues. There have been times I have read to her for 8 to 10 hours at a time, as she couldn't take the noise...
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    Adoption/biological

    We tried to do open adoption. Our child's birthmother was open through an inter mediatary. She wanted us to adopt her other 3 children, when her child was 3 months old. We said yes, however the judge said no. The judge didn't feel she had worked on a parenting plan. End result was she...
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    Adoption/biological

    I am chronically ill. We adopted, however not due to my illness. To much crud in the gene pool, on his side. I will be honest and say that I wish I did have a pregnancy. However, that being said I can honesty say and have said I AM SO GLAD WE DIDN"T GET PREGNANT! just wanted to shout it. I...
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    Which way to turn?

    Mo, Sorry to see you leaving. It is hard to undo something you didn't give permission for. I hope you find a way to stay. Hugs, LMBL
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    Something More

    Jane, I think your being incredibly graceful. I am so glad you decided to share your journey with us again. Thank you, LMBL
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    Which way to turn?

    maybe he just fell asleep. That has happened to me.
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    Not about poly: Homeschooling why?

    For me the issue was about my child, being quiet shy in social settings. However, super confident and okay in social situations where she knows people. Her private school, was withholding information from us about her needing extra time to write on papers and tests. Turns out she has a...
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    Not about poly: Homeschooling why?

    I homeschool for a year and a half. My child was ill and just not up to going to school. Instead of having teachers traipsing in at night, I decided to go this route. Socialization wasn't a huge dilemna, I hooked up with a non religious group in my state. We went to our first event which was...
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    Poly-Friendly Places to live... I suck at google search. :(

    Finding the right place in VA might be good as far as work goes. If you can find a large home. They pay 2000 dollars a month for day care. I know someone who left her husband converted her basement and now brings in 12,000 a month. She has to offer so many days in advance. Plus there are...
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    Accidentally Poly - The Karma Story.

    Karma, my father is alot like you. He realized with a wife and three kids he needed something different after quiting lots of jobs. He found a career he could be happy in. Yes, it took taking an apprenticeship for 2 dollars an hour. Us going on food stamps and getting handouts from people...
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    Which way to turn?

    MO have you considered calling Karma and telling him how you feel about this?
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    The Needy Partner: Illness and Polyamory

    I am the person in our relationship with the chronic illness. It is difficult place to be in. I have other outlets then my partner. For me, I have feelings of fear that I am not enough and am going to be left behind for the healthy person. I have spoken about this and gotten reassurance in this...
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    A long story

    How long has it been since Tess came into the picture?
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    What are you listening to now?

    you are my only exception by Paramore
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    Plans for Thanksgiving?

    We (husband, child and myself), our heart family and a total of 30 people for something different this year. We are all going to a near by resort for the thanks giving meal at a famous restrautant. I feel odd about this, but I want to be with my closet people. So this is where we are headed...
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    potential mate into cuckold

    My husband is totally into this. My BF was not. However, it was enough for my husband to be with me directly after being with my BF. My husband, has fantasies of hiding in the closet and watching. Being bound and made to watch. Of course he is totally into catching me with a female, however...
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    I am heartbroken!

    I am sad for you. However, I don't think if I were your SO, I would be comfortable with Miss 2nd the cowgirl ever.
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    Which way to turn?

    Hmmm, when I think of things like that is with cost vs. value. How much is it going to cost me physically, emotionally, spiritually vs. fianaciall gain and experience. That's how I weigh out my decisions. Personally, I
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