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This is amazing. *shakes head* I know I'm not involved in this situation, but I've got a similar one going on in my life, and it's like you looked right through everything and read my own issue out loud to me. I have a lot to ponder. Thanks for posting this.

For me, meeting before sex isn't a big deal. XIV is a lot more of casual sex guy than a relationship guy, (mostly because he is really really picky about who he is in romantic relationships with.... much less so who he sleeps with :D) However, it would be important to me for a physical meeting...

I read like the first 5 or something... I think the last one I read was the one where Micah got introduced. It was actually irritatingly frustrating reading the books, I was like yelling at the page "POLYAMORY IS FOR YOU!!!! DO SOME GOOGLING!! Stupid monogamous expectations and society ruining...

Yes, please expand.... I'm feel like to be able to give sound advice and help in relating to your situation, more information is necessary. But once it's given, I'm sure we would all love to help you sort through things. Welcome :)

Isn't it interesting how much we can change in a matter of months by just changing the way we look at things?

LOL, mine is only scared of bugs that he thinks there is a good reason to be scared of... eg, he doesn't like specific spiders, or specific animals that are deadlier than others lololol.... I'm just glad he will take care of any that I'm too scared of to handle myself... and he thinks my willow...

husbands are good for genociding spiders... although mine makes fun of me for it. Whatever... I keep his head screwed on straight lol

hahaha I can relate for sure. I'm glad I've never had to even make that choice, hahaha... I always joke with XIV (hubby) that I hope there isn't a zombie apocolypse, because I'm not sure I could run away through the woods.... and basically the scariest thing I can imagine is a zombie clown...

Hahahaha, I literally hate spiders too... I actually have a really intense horror story about why. I was camping as a kid, maybe 7 or 8... and one of my dad's friends had brought a similar aged daughter. She told me that wolf spiders were the size of wolves, and hunted in packs.... underwater...

I'm a total gamer geek. Starting at a young age, we had the following consoles: nintendo, snes, sega genisis, nintendo 64, gamecube, wii, xbox, xbox 360 ps1 and ps2. Now that I'm an adult, my mother bought herself a ps3 last christmas, lol... As for me now, I am primarily a PC gamer. My...

I agree! Welcome to our lovely forum :D

Right? I live in the Pac NW, and there is a decent number of people in my area... but still, not easy to meet people. My husband has a had a couple ONS, but nothing lasting.... Hahahaha, nope not bitchy-Kyle. Trust me. My only brother's name is Kyle, and I know a bitchy Kyle when I see one :D...

I relate to this very strongly. I'm a woman, but still when I send messages out, oftentimes I don't get any kind of response back. It's irritating as hell. It's frustrating when I'm messaging another girl, but it's WAY frustrating when it's a guy and they have bitched on their profile about...

I love this list. Keep it up! I recently posted a Post-it note on my computer monitor that was similar-- reminders to myself to keep my paranoia and ability to drastically overthink everything under control... and it worked. Mostly. ;)

I loved this. This is awesome. Especially "7) You don’t know who the love of your life is until the last day of your life. Each bond is for different purposes." So accurate. Bookmarked! Thanks for sharing :D

I found it :) It is ImaginaryIllusion's blog, "How did I get here & Where am I going?" that had some writing that opened my entire mind about how I was approaching my trust issues with my husband and myself. If you haven't read it, I suggest you do. It is awesome. his blog Once again, good...

As someone who has dealt with a lot of my own trust issues (stemming from my childhood) around my husband and opening our marriage up, (unwarranted as they were) I think counseling is the perfect answer. For me, when it first came up, I had to put polyamory on pause for about 6 months, while I...

I went and read your other blog and I must say... your writing style is amazing, and the way you portray sex is beautiful and amazing. The rawness of your feeling comes out in your writing, and it beautiful. I am excited to read more of your words.

My husband leaves his wedding ring on all the time, but mine is too big and I end up taking it off to do the dishes/bathe the baby/take my own shower and forgetting to put it back on. I'm not really an "meet new people at the bar" kinda person, but I wouldn't leave my ring off just to meet people.

This is wonderful. I'm glad you are doing well, I followed the thread when your wife was in LA pretty closely, and I'm glad to read this. Also- being a nerd is awesome, just sayin'