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Congrats! Enjoy! Always good to get some interaction with his loved ones in a positive way. How long have you and Mr A been involved at this point? Going through this with Hubs. And I must say I haven't been pressuring but it confuses me much of the time. Not sure if I am not pressuring...

LOL! Jalapeno wrapped in bacon would have 2rings salivating, choc/carmel covered bacon would get Hubs!;)

Good point. It is definitely a "feel your way" kind of thing; which sucks for me because I am a COA (course of action) kind of person. BTW I am definitely much more a voyuer, but have a really hard time sharing my personal stuff. 2Rings is really the only person that knows all of my "stuff"...

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They are great! :cool: They remind me of Gaslight Anthem.

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It's insane not to love you. It's insane to not want to let go of anger and resentment. It's insane to not want to give up total control. It's insane to not look forward to the future, and plan for it. It's insane to fly by the seat of your pants because it only causes chaos and uncertainty...

Yes this is an interesting option. I am having a hard time wrapping my head around how to balance peace with everyone in our situation AND either not communicating or communicating too much. So what is TMI in a poly/mono double hinge situation?

Good suggestions all! wordpress? will have to look into that. thanks for suggestions about Hubs and dadt too!

That's a given. And we have slowly been moving towards more social interaction. thanks Mon. How did you handle being introduced to Pepper's nuclear family? what helped? what didn't work for you? his dadt policy is that he does not want to hear sexual details. or for that matter personal details...

Wow! great post nycindie!

Gotta question Can someone from an established poly/mono relationship let me know what to expect from SO and OSO once we start introducing more home time with OSO. I am curious as to what is normal once 2Rings is able to spend more time with me at home what kind of issues to expect. i don't...

Totally agree on this Sage!

just a quick check-in Constantly changing. No inertia here. Really great conversations with loved ones about poly. Of course I was careful as to whom I told about 2Rings and Hub's acceptance of this OSO. 2Rings went with me to meet a very close cousin of mine. She is an only child and so we...

Thank you!:)

That was an exceptionally thoughtful post on kt's blog. you are right on so much. i hope she understands that it is not about competing with me. thank you for your input and interest.

You always say the most intriguing things! This made me giggle today. No idea why.

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Best of luck on an enjoyable visit!:)

Ach, sweetie. Read these sentences. You wrote them. Read them. Just stop the insanity of living in regret and remorse and anger and hate. You have got 9, count 'em, 9 people committed to you and your tribe. No one is judging YOU. just some of your behaviors. And not judging in an accusatory...