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Well said. What a good point. :confused:

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Oh man. Thanks, Seventhcrow. As simple as this is, I finally understand a helluva lot better.

Interesting! I believe P is the same. I am mono at this point. He is poly, and an ethical slut in the same fashion, I think. Only he seems less sure of what he wants. We had a looonnng chat last night about all sorts of issues that were coming up (i.e., my drinking and depression, his...

Very true, Crisare, very true.

Miss

Beautiful Album Mono. THanks for sharing!

Thanks Mono, I am still figuring out how all these conversations/PMs/Friend things work on here. Gladly accepted your request =D

bunny

Agreed. Judgement can be a good thing. P and I are different. He feels like everyone is always judging him. He needs to make the best impression, and that everyone is always judging. However, being human, I do judge people, to an extent, but disagree completely. I don't think everyone judges...

Hi im in the nyc area too. welcome:o

Aw yes, I suspected some judgement as far as that goes. I don't want anyone bashing him, but some judgement is nice because it helps me understand what is actually going on, or what could be going on, what to look out for, or talk to him about, etc., etc.

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Oh man, this makes things so much clearer to understand. I sure think it's odd that my bf has so much poly pride, and has read everything and preaches it to the girls he likes, yet comes to this conclusion. Although it's always possible I am interpreting situations in a different (not...

EXACTLY! that makes loads of sense. Wow guys, thanks for all your insight and sharing your personal experience with how you came to identify yourselves, or how you decided not to do so. This is really eye opening. I didnt know polyamory existed either, but I don't see it as the answer or...

P is actually 11 years older than me.

Very true. That is exactly what I told P. I'm not sure this is for me, but I'd like to give it a shot because I like you and I'm willing to learn about this lifestyle. I'm open to it. After P met me he started hooking upsort of dating, two other girls. Since then, he's come to the conclusion...

Maybe slut isn't good word choice for this whole topic... I hardly think what I was doing was poly! In fact, I figured it had nothing to do with being poly at all. It was me being a 20-year old drunk college girl, trying something new for fun, something that I knew my boyfriend wouldn't have a...

Agreed! Aww, you poor thing, get some rest and feel better!

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