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Geminigirl basically said most of what I was going to. 1- If you see this person once a week, there's no reason that on those other 6 days a week why you can't be going out dating (just like most single people do, poly or mono) and eventually meet that ideal primary partner. 2- Until that...

From what I understand, if she takes a full dose of Valtrex daily and you avoid contact if/when there is an outbreak, the chances of getting it in return are minimal.

No, it sounds like a great introduction. Welcome!

That's more of a thing you find with the dating scene---particularly online---regardless of polyamorous or monogamous. Ask just about any single person out there regardless of whether they are poly or mono and they are dealing with the same thing. At first you don't succeed, try try again. You...

Well there certainly is a grey area and what's she is doing could just be called dating for sure. The biggest "poly" component seems to be the guys that she's seeing (they already having other partners). It's hard to pinpoint a differnce between just casual dating and being a poly who's still...

See? This is what I mean! :D Best community one can be in, in my view.

It's not about you. She met someone and felt something for him. Didn't mean she loves you any less. Love doesn't have a limited amount for a person to give. And you are right...she did tell you that open relationships were her thing from the get-go. That's a big piece of info you shouldn't...

Hi guys welcome to the site.

Welcome to the site. ;-)

Y'all are a handsome couple.

My gut reaction is that while, logically, you're comfortable with the concept of being in a polyamorous relationship, there are still nagging doubts in the back of your head, which most likely are remnants of being conditioned into thinking that this is wrong and that anything other than 100%...

Ok, maybe I haven't been around to read your other posts, but isn't Surrey just outside of London? Have you tried going to the London Poly meetup?

Sounds like you approve of Swinging but actual true polyamory---love & intimacy with others---is off the table. As a polyamorous person I would never go along with your rule.

Cute. Though probably would pick "Robert919" as that's my polymatchmaker and okcupid name. Can you change your name without changing all the other account info? Or would you have to close it and start anew? :confused:

Coming back from an absence so I haven't read the whole thread but I've had this discussion with my friends recently: J was very upset that N & A would take him to social events with their friends and introduce him to everyone as their "friend". Multiple times. N is very uncomfortable about...

Howdy, that's me. After a long absence, I am back, no longer in a triad though... single again. But to the Original Poster---if you have any questions or want some insights I'd be very very happy to share whatever I can. I'm already giving another MMM triad a few pointers here and there of...

Thanks for the re-welcome! :) Even though it ended I don't think it changed my mind about poly. I really do still feel the drive to love more than one still. Granted, this identity has probably turned off a few potential dates (guys still with that monogamy-at-all-costs mindset). But in...

It is a group of people I have kinda come to call "Home" in a way. When my gay triad was together, I felt more at home at the local Poly group than among the local gay community. We were like a circus freakshow in their eyes most of the time. Oy. And when we broke up it was my poly...

Hello. Been a long time since I've been here. My triad split back in early Summer. I've been adjusting to single life since then and haven't been here. I apologize for that. Going from two partners to zero overnight has been an adjustment, but I'm trying to move on. I'm now casually dating a...

^ OK the hair one is a bit creepy! :eek: