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I believe some people prefer to have totally separate relationships from their primary. I think that's great, to me that is what a V relationship would be. Where one person is the hinge, & the other two people are only connected through that person. The responsibility for scheduling &...

I totally agree with you that any structure can work and it is all about the people investing in the relationship that makes it work. I do believe that a triad does Not require sex for memebers to be in a triad. For example, when I had two boyfriends, we aimed to become a triad, not a V...

Oh, thats awesome... I think I caused a lot of problems in my Triad/V relationship between me & my two boyfriends because I would complain to one boyfriend about the things I didnt like in the other boyfriend & vice versa-which caused a lot of confusion about "Why was I dating them in the first...

Um, I am (fem part of) a MF couple who would want to date another couple. I am open to other ideas & I will not let my expectations get in the way of reality & what really ends up happening as long as it is making me happy. I just want to say that theoretically it would work nicely for us...

Hey, I think you got some really great advice on your thread. I have had people try to get me to leave my boyfriend just because they are selfish & want a threesome/situation. Best wishes finding a situation that will fulfill your needs & make you happy! If you are still looking for couples I...

Hey! Thanks for messaging me! Sorry I didn't get back to you sooner, I haven't checked this site in a while. I would love to chat with you sometime :)

Hey! Thanks for messaging me, sorry I didn't get back to you sooner! I haven't checked this site for awhile :) I would love to chat with you sometime :)

hey welcome to the site! would enjoy chatting with you sometime :)

Hey guys! we would love to be friends :) I have facebook, yahoo, ect if you would like to chat sometime.

In my opinion it sounds like you are in a polyamorous Vee with C. being the hinge. I think its really great that you & B are friends & have respect for the situation. That's just super & so important.

Someone said I should try "fetlife.com" too... im looking into it, it seems to encompass all fetishes & alternative lifestyles. It would be nice if there were some more "meet & greets" maybe we could organize something...

I am a member of SDC.com (a swinger website, free trial or paid membership) but there are some polys on there as well. I also just joined OkCupid.com (free) & I love it already, it is easy to find poly people on this site just enter it in as a key word. Already I have made some friends :D

Yes, that's the best advice, is to educate him. Tell him the facts & how you feel. Also to maybe prevent one of the mistakes I made when we had a mfm relationship, make sure you do not hang over their relationship. Such as, don't try to make them get along, just tell him how you feel & let...

Sometimes I am shy to ask people if they would be/could be interested in a couple because they have themselves listed as only looking for a whimsical unicorn creature (also known as the single female). After considering our needs we found that there are several relationship structures (single...

Your needs are being ignored, & you are being taken for granted. Im a girl, trust me when I say, she knows whats going on, shes just being lazy & selfish in ur "relationship" bc you will be there to lean on. I understand that you care for her & I believe when you explain that she probably does...

I was wondering if there is anyone who would talk to me on the phone about a certain subject that is about our past poly experience, but is affecting our relationship (not in a particularly good or bad way) but I don't think Ryan wants it posted in a forum. But I think a third person's view...

Ideally Ryan & I would like to have a quad relationship. We feel that it is just as likely, if not more likely for us to meet a compatible couple than a single. I am still dreaming though I think ...

Sounds like you have some good ideas. You could cook them a meal, provide pens and paper, create a relaxed atmosphere. Other than that, you will have to tell them it is "up to them," because it is, and it should be. Let them work out some things their way, for themselves, so they can grow their...

Oh yeah, there's this poly crowd for cool people, you know, only some people qualify.... Haha just kidding!! There are many poly "signs" (wikipedia has a list of them I'm sure there is a list of them on the forum also). There are also conferences & workshops. I think that trying to "convert"...