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  1. Senga

    I crossed a boundary. What do I do now?

    As you have learned from this experience, if you don't do what you say, then it opens up a can of rotten shit worms. In my opinion, if there was an agreement, it does not matter what the agreement was, you had the obligation to follow the agreement. If you don't like the agreement, then don't...
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    How do I heal a psychological disconnect between sex and emotional bonding?

    This story wasn't exactly the same as my situation, but I was interested in the topic and I think I learned some things reading it.
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    How do I heal a psychological disconnect between sex and emotional bonding?

    Oh, I guess I didn't realize it was that old. Haha I am so nosey. I read it all. How is everything turning out for them now? I like to read people's stories. I'm going to read NYCindie's now. lol
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    How do I heal a psychological disconnect between sex and emotional bonding?

    Wow, everything has been covered already. The only thing I would like to point out to you is how many people care about you. Your husband seems willing to work on it. All these people are answering you honestly & its harsh, but that means they love you. *hugs* I have a few people who give it to...
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    I enjoyed reading your post. We are a younger couple too, its nice to see others that are into...

    I enjoyed reading your post. We are a younger couple too, its nice to see others that are into polyamory around our age. I love this forum! :)
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    Casual Sex - Discussion

    I was previously part of a V. I had two romantic and sexual relationship boyfriends where I was the hinge). I am part of a couple right now. Ryan and I have had casual, safe, NSA sex with another couple. We did it together. Called it swinging. From my experience, my relationship with the two...
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    hey we would love to chat with you :) Agnes & Ryan

    hey we would love to chat with you :) Agnes & Ryan
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    New and looking for all kinds of advice!

    We are looking for similar things. We had a V relationship before and we kept it personal and were vague about it (referred each other as roommates in public) because of family. This did cause some stress. We went out of town to places like the strip club, and to 6flags so that we could hold...
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    Boyfriend abhors the idea, can't understand

    I had two really great boyfriends once. This experience helped me to understand ways they think, and that there is emotional vulnerability for men as well. My boyfriend, Ryan, was also hesitant about the polyamory thing when we first started. From my experience, men often feel threatened when...
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    A look at some relationship dysfunction

    What a great article! thanks for sharing
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    Hi! My process 2 polyamory & future

    My personal process to polyamory: A few years ago I was not a mature person. I thought that I was already a mature person through my experiences with abuse growing up. I was probably more mature than some others in my age group. The truth is that at times I could be selfish, controlling, lazy...
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    Hey! I would love to know how you four are doing because Ryan & I hope to eventually have a quad...

    Hey! I would love to know how you four are doing because Ryan & I hope to eventually have a quad with a couple. Any advice?
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    Hello everyone! If you are my friend then you will be able to view my picture album on the...

    Hello everyone! If you are my friend then you will be able to view my picture album on the right. Also, there is a short description under the 'about me' section. xoxo <83
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    Husband's girlfriend uncomfortable

    When I was in an MFM V relationship (two hetero boyfriends), we had several talks related to this subject. They were both open to polyamory somewhat, but we all had issues to work through. From my experience as a female, I think it was challenging for me to simply express when I wanted sex or...
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