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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    How I'm feeling today is markedly different than yesterday afternoon Today - feeling pretty good about life and in a much better frame of mind. Thank gawd for hot tubs :D
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Seriously freaking cold right now. Had planned on going skating this morning and hubby stole the car to go to a health related appointment!! :p The NERVE! *snicker* Wouldn't be so bad if he hadn't left the back door open which allowed all the cold outside air to pollute my warm house :p
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    If I was any better I'd be twins. Seriously. I have a 3 day weekend - and I'm going skating tomorrow, hiking Thursday and hopefully buying a new-to-me car this weekend.
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    What did you do today that made you smile?

    Got up and did my workout... carried on with a conversation with a very nice boy in Tennessee.... :p Its highly amusing and seriously fun :)
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    Redpepper's journey

    That's good! It means life is full and busy :)
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    Everyday Commitments To Loving Kindness

    I really like this, thank you for sharing :)
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    is there a better word?

    When W was involved with P and they started describing themselves as bf/gf - too me, that was too fast and too childish... I suggested the term "sweetie" Meh - its all good :) Right now I don't have anyone else but my husband so its a bridge I'll cross when I get there...
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    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    I think its because anyone can start a group. There's no specific forums. So for me - I joined groups that interested me, talked to people who interested me and responded to threads that I found interesting. Its funny - I'm more used to *that* type of forum than I am this... well, now I'm...
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    Less interested in sex with SO; does this happen often during strong NRE for another?

    I find that the busier life gets, the less interest in sex and affection I get. There's a couple sayings that come to mind: "Act as if" "Fake it until you make it" I have found myself that when I "make" myself "act" loving and caring and affectionate and sexual, my mind and my body follow...
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    Poly people she could do without.

    *grumbles about stupid IT blocking "adult content" websites*
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    Poly-themed Movies

    The Substitute Wife. A dying woman seeks out a woman to replace her when she passes on. Its a really very lovely story :)
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    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    Search button is your friend. Search polyamory Search poly Search your area (ie: New York) It will bring up kinksters, groups and events with those words in them. Then join the groups, and start talking to people. Talk to your greeter - she/he will be an amazing resource for you :) (or you...
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    Polyamory in television shows

    So now Sookie had said in no uncertain terms that she is in love with Bill and Eric both... Will be interesting to see how the writers play this...
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    is there a better word?

    Sourgirl's description/analogy of a step-father is one that works for me. My children's "secondary" father is more important in their lives than their "primary" father ever was. He's not less than though. Just as a "secondary" partner would not be less than my primary partner. I...
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Freaking exhausted from an amazing weekend. Got to NSO for the Sirens/Terminal City bout... and then got to be a spectator for TCRG semi-finals. Drove up to Kamloops yesterday, back today with a stop in New West. Happy to be home and watching True Blood with W holding my hand :)
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    is there a better word?

    I went to dictionary.com and thesaurus.com and looked up the actual definition of "secondary" and its synonyms. Depending on what point of view you want to take, secondary CAN be seen as less than or less desirable. From dictionary.com: sec·ond·ar·y   [sek-uhn-der-ee] Show IPA adjective...
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    I am not so patiently waiting for my work day to end. 2.5 hours. UGH. Then off to Kamloops for the weekend - doing derby stuff up there - and home Sunday night. Not going to see my kids or hubby at ALL this weekend... :( But will get to see my oldest kid so that rocks :D :)
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    Greetings!

    Hello and welcome! This site is a great resource :)
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    Something More

    Thanks! I am REALLY tired. I just realized you already knew about my anniversary. You can disregard the email LOL Pengrah is texting Wellington again. I'm okay with it. I was okay with it back in December, after they had broken up and he and I had started the healing process. But he wasn't...
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