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*face/palm* I read that as "child appropriate!" Duh! Same concept though. lol Thanks, Mono.

I have been in your shoes. It is NOT fun by any stretch of the imagination. Disliking your partner's other partner is NOT the end of the world! It makes things a lot more difficult but it's certainly not anything that can't be over come by a LOT of communication, setting of boundaries &...

Making out=no. That is for private moments. What is your definition of making out? For me it's groping, French kissing, touching private parts, biting and the like. But hugging, kissing, cuddling are all good. I've been known to sit between my two guys and play footsie with both of them at the...

I am a very non-traditional slave! If people don't like who I am, what I do, how Breathes & I interact, they can just not be around us! I can be in a room with 200 people or 50 people and STILL avoid those whom I just do not want to be around. If you or Easy are having a problem with how things...

Yesterday was my birthday! I'm now young enough to know better & old enough to do it any way! lol I was supposed to go see Jeff Dunham Saturday night as a gift from Breathes. Unfortunately, due to someone's faulty 69 year old memory we didn't have a reliable vehicle to get there :(. Adored...

Yes, PMM is back up and running! They were down for a year or so doing upgrades, etc. but they've been back for about two years now. You can find me there as Breathes_girl or Steph_n_robin although I use Breathes_girl a lot more often.

We watched Just Wright last night. Queen Latifah's in it. There was a general consensus that we 1. find Queen Latifah HAWT! 2. would rather be with someone with a little meat on her bones than someone who's all bones & angles like Callista Flockhart (not sure how to spell her first name)...

Have you shown B what you have written here, the good and the bad? Let him read it, know where your head and heart are at. Sometimes we can tell them, preach at them, that we aren't going anywhere. We will still be here when they get home from a date (or us come home from a date), and they...

DO NOT DO IT!!!!! Do the work on yourself and your marriage BEFORE adding absolutely, positively anyone else! Adding another to an already troubled marriage can only add MORE trouble, strife, grief & jealousy! Adding ANY MORE people only serves to compound any problems that already exist many...

Communication There have been various posts about communication, & the lack of, here & there in the places I visit frequently. A lot of times it isn't about the communication itself but about the different communication STYLES and the people involved. I do well with both written & verbal...

Now that I can read it...... It's a little difficult to understand the question but if I'm reading it correctly...you shouldn't be adding someone else to relationships that already are having problems. A new relationship might mask the problem for a time but it will eventually come back even...

He is recently out of a long term relationship. He needs to give himself time to grieve & learn to live singly again. Let him have this space. He may not realize that that's what it is he needs, a LOT of people don't realize it. Talk to him on Monday at lunch. Tell him your decision to move...

Cricket: for years my dad would put gas in my Mom's car. He did it out of love for her. When we're out together Breathes will put gas in the car. Don't let your independent streak get in the way of receiving help, which is freely offered, with something which is easily delegated. You have...

I'll be 39 with five years experience on Tuesday :D. Breathes turned 40 last month. Possibility will be 31 next year. I'm rather enjoying my journey now.

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It's awesome to have such loving friends and family that they will give you so much special time! Mono said something about 'birthday week?' Have fun and enjoy.

Christmas babies! Gotta love us!

Take a time out, breathe, realize that you WILL make it through, under, over or around this. Give yourself permission to feel. Start with the little things like being happy that you were able to trade kisses with V & nothing bad happened & work your way up from there. Do it slowly, do it...

I've actually had to think about this too. I talk about it. When I'm with Possibility I talk about Breathes, and vice versa. It doesn't seem to annoy them, although I haven't thought to ask. There's nothing wrong with letting your partners know you are thinking about them when you're with the...

Nope, definitely NOT just you. Years ago, when I was still with my boys' father, my brother and his family needed a place to stay. We had a trailer so we let them stay in it for a specified amount of time. The time came and went & they were still there. I finally had to tell him they had a...