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  1. Breathesgirl

    Good times

    Rambling, random thoughts. Trying to figure things out. This lack of communication with Possibility is driving me absolutely and totally bonkers! I've been feeling kind of emotionally numb and uncentered for a couple of weeks and I don't know why.:( I've tried and tried to get his whole...
  2. Breathesgirl

    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    bleh. Not happy, not sad, not mad just not......feeling????? Emotionally numb, that's it. Frustrated.....communication with Possibility totally freaking sucks! Son is a joy to have around most of the time :).
  3. Breathesgirl

    Good times

    :p;) We went to the fall fair with some new friends last night and had a really good time. At least I did until I started feeling the effects of riding carnival rides and being stupid enough to NOT wear shoes with orthotics when I KNOW I'm going to be doing a ton of walking! The new friends...
  4. Breathesgirl

    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Happy, content, owieeeeeeee! *whine, whine, whine* We went to the fall fair last night with some new friends :). We all had a good time riding rides (me only two since whiplash is NOT my friend), playing games, drinking water & soda and just walking around getting to know each other better...
  5. Breathesgirl

    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Bed.....what a wonderful word! What a wonderful thought! I'll be getting horizontal in the next hour or so. Four day weekend ahoy! WOOT!
  6. Breathesgirl

    sorry it's taken me so long to reply. I'm busy with life so online communities take a back seat...

    sorry it's taken me so long to reply. I'm busy with life so online communities take a back seat until things settle down again. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/polyamorycanada/?yguid=232353091 . That is the Toronto Poly group.
  7. Breathesgirl

    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    HUGS to all who want or need them!
  8. Breathesgirl

    Spinoff - Time Sharing

    A Critter Sandwich? Devo on one side of you, hubby on the other. You geet to cuddle with both and neither feels left out.
  9. Breathesgirl

    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    You're talking to the Queen Procrastinator here, lol. If it can be put off, it will be.
  10. Breathesgirl

    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    I love all of them, all five, but the bickering....I just can't take it for very long. It makes me feel as thought it's directed at me, even when it isn't.
  11. Breathesgirl

    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Good. Possibility just left to go home :(. I had a light bulb moment yesterday about why I'm so leery of going to his place when the opportunity arises. It's the way he and his wife relate to each other. They bicker which sets me on edge which then makes me uncomfortable. Bickering is their...
  12. Breathesgirl

    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Bleh. Sick of allergies. Sick of Mother Nature being menopausal too! Work can't make up their minds which job they want me to do from day to day (the glories of being cross trained!). I'm getting a wee bit sick of doing all the prep work to get one set of machines started just so someone...
  13. Breathesgirl

    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    Happy Anniversary indeed! TP, yes, it was loverly :D Breathes really is totally awesome, lol. I hadn't seen Possibility that week, didn't see him this week and most likely won't next week either :(, so that little bit of a conversation just might have to hold me over for another nine days or...
  14. Breathesgirl

    NRE (New Relationship Energy) - Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Perhaps you and the boys could leave at the same time as him sometimes and go to the park or something while they hang out together, that should at least put her mind at ease on that score. As for the future, it sounds like the two of you need to put some time limits on how much time he can...
  15. Breathesgirl

    insecure... but is it normal or should I "get over it"?

    Even if you don't tell them about what went on in 100% detail you do need to get past that relationship. That could include things like: telling your couple about it, writing about it, therapist Talk to them, tell them what is going on with you, that you didn't realize just how much that...
  16. Breathesgirl

    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    Breathes and I were at a game store yesterday morning. HE called Possibility to tell him that a game that Breathes and Possibility's male partner were talking about the previous night was at this particular store and the price. He then handed me the phone so I could talk to Possibility for a...
  17. Breathesgirl

    Redpepper's journey

    RP, sit them down and talk to them. Tell them that this is what makes YOU feel good. I bet you'd be surprised at how quickly you'll start hearing the words of appreciation :). I know I've seen some on here from both Derby and Mono.
  18. Breathesgirl

    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Apparently not as well as I thought! I just went into the kitchen, fixed my coffee, then came OUT of the kitchen, sat down and remembered my coffee which was STILL in the kitchen! Thinking it's time to get some quality sleep. This oppressive heat and humidity is prohibiting quality AND...
  19. Breathesgirl

    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Feeling a little melancholy. My baby's growing up! :( He's going on his first non-family trip next month! He'll be with the church youth group but still........he's growing up and maturing and all that stuff he's supposed to do but I'm sooooooooooooo not ready for it!
  20. Breathesgirl

    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Hugs Ari, hope you feel better soon. Had a nice LONG walk today. Two hours worth! They closed off King Street (or portions thereof) for the day so people could spend time doing things they love, like walking, biking, skating, skate boarding, time with friends/family. It was a beautiful sunny...
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